First time Anal Lovin'

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  1. MRCLEAN

    MRCLEAN New Member

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    Hey, my girlfriend has been wanting to try the anal sex as of late. She love the old finger in the ass during sex and is look to step it up a little but. The problem is, im not a small man and shes a small asian girl, so shes natually cock-grabbingly tight. Im just worried that im going to rip her in half like a phone book. Anyone have any tips other than excessive lube? Would appreciate any insight you guys/girls could offer.
     
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    l S3RG10 l New Member

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    It prolly wont happen the first time the way you want it to. Go slow, real slow. Don't move in and out just let it sit there inside her and barely move. It took my ex gf and I about three times of this before she got a liking for it, then after that it's smooth sailing. :)
     
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    Maybe have her finger herself in the ass(more often) so that way she will get used to stretching her inside more. or you can buy a smal butt plug or something and have her try it out for a few days and gradually moving on with bigger things till she is ready to try at it.
     
  4. chrisr85

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    the anus is a muscle and like all muscles it needs prep...

    step 1: start by putting one finger in but not all the way and let it sit...dont forget lube...then put it in all the way and kinda turn it....

    next....put 2 in there and repeat step 1...after her asshole has opened enough...

    put your cock in there slowly...just let the head get in there and slowly try to go deeper...after her asshole has loosened up enough to the point where it doesnt hur her...

    than you can go all out if you want
     
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    the anus is a very elastic thing, much like the vagina. give it time and it'll accept most anything. so no, you're not too big and she's not too small. however if you try to force anything you're gonna hurt her, alot. like people have said, use lots of lube and take lots of time.
     
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    Go to your local sex shop and invest in a but plug, get a few different sizes. Use them while you are fucking her normally, kind of like a double penetration. She will love it and her ass will be more accepting
     
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    you're gonna have to expand that bunghole! work your way up to teh cac and go slow, no quick motions in or out.
     

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