so tomorrow is the big night in my newly formed relationship. Ive only had sex twice before and they were both horrible drunken experiences. I was never really into any of the other chicks, just sorta random hookups. This chick im seeing now ive been crushing on for like 3 years and I find out that shes totally into me now too. We started seeing each other 2 weeks ago and we have been talking almost every day. She really wants to have sex this friday night and I want it to be really special for the both of us. I always have problems initiating physical contact, even with a kiss because of my huge fear of rejection that has ruled my life for 19 years. Im slowly fighting it but I have no idea how to get the mood right or anything so I can make my move. I got some candles and some massage oil but i dont know what kind of music i should play for her. I know that communication is important in a relationship and in the bedroom, and I tend to get shy when im having sex but im going to work hard to be assertive and to get her to be assertive too. Any thoughts or support ?