So my g/f finally decided it was time to give it a whirl last night. We had our baby 7 weelks ago, she had a C section. The most she dialated was 8cm. There was no pushing involved when we had our baby. So we started in on the foreplay, warming her up was not a problem. I went to put it in, and could not get it past the tip. I swear she was almost in tears. Penetration has never been a problem before. I am sure nerves came into play, and we both weren't as relaxed as we couldve been, but this was suprising to the both of us. We tried lube, but it just hurt her too much, and I could only get a few half pushes in before I just stopped. What's the deal here? Anyone have any suggestions or has anyone gone through this before. Thanks.