I was just wondering if there were any ways to tell if a girl is a virgin just from a first date. Maybe it's too early to tell, but I am kinda new to this dating scene. Do girls ever lie about past relationships such as if she never had a bf would she mention she had a few bf's? 2nd date update: I went on a second date with the girl. We seem to have a real connection or so i feel that way. The one thing that confuses me is how the girl talks about going out drinking with her friends alot. I know there is nothing wrong with this, but i just had a feeling she wasnt like that. So later on in the date she opens up more and starts telling me more about herself instead of a front. She says she doesn't drink often and only does it to have fun on occasion. So my question is why would she put up a front like that? Is it to make me think her life is more interesting or shes more outgoing? Maybe I am thinking too hard about it.