SRS First date since my Ex dumped me

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  1. Want2race

    Want2race Fearless

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    And boy did it suck! I dont want to sound negative but I wasnt digging it

    Its been a month or maybe 2 now..

    Makes me miss what I had a ton. Its going to be hard to get back out there for a while.. Good thing Ill be in the Middle east for a while.

    :ugh2:
     
  2. Socrates

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    The first few dates after a breakup almost always suck.

    You'll get back on the horse :)
     
  3. deusexaethera

    deusexaethera OT Supporter

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    What you had is gone, whether because of your whim or hers. Your new squeeze doesn't deserve to be punished because of it.

    Just keep reminding yourself how you'd feel if you knew the person sitting on the other side of the table was deliberately sabotaging the date because she'd rather be with a guy who already decided he didn't want her anymore.
     
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    Its more than that really. She smokes, doesnt get along with other people, barked at the waitress.. That kinda shit. It wasnt that I had decided beforehand to dislike her.. Its just a good few things I dont like, regardless of the EX or not
     
  5. bimmer318

    bimmer318 I'm out of applesauce

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    My last date was almost 7 months ago
     
  6. Want2race

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    cause you cant get one or just dont want one or arent ready ?
     
  7. Ladybug

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    this.


    They really do when it was coming from a long term/highly emotional one.

    They'll get better. There were multiple incompatibility factors with this girl, maybe in the future not go in so blind?
     
  8. deusexaethera

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    Well, if she really wasn't the sort of person you want to be with, that's different.
     
  9. bimmer318

    bimmer318 I'm out of applesauce

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    I want one, but I think I'm not ready and can't get one...
     
  10. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    EWW :barf: Bye!
     
  11. black jesus

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    when I have a first "date" or a "day2" I always have them meet me somewhere so if its not jiving, we can split.
     
  12. BoypussY

    BoypussY game over.

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    dont go on dates. hit up some local chill house parties and that is the best place to meet fun girls. dates are boring, typical and cost $$$
     
  13. JasonKnight

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    I am in this same boat... except its been almost 2 years since I had a girlfriend... just trying to find the lost courage to ask someone out right now is hard...
     
  14. Want2race

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    doesnt really work when you get older..
     

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