First Date Recap

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  1. bearsdidit

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    Sooooo I guess I'll give you guys a little background on the situation... I met the new girl last Friday night at a mutual friend's house. We exchanged small talk and played a game of beer pong together. I'll call her "D" for the rest of the message. That night I ended up getting her friends phone number (The friend will be now be reffered to as "S") and invited them over to my place the following night for another kick back.

    The following night ended up being pretty awesome. A bunch of my friends showed up along with the two girls. I was talking to "S" and she mentioned her friend "D" was pretty into me. As any male with a functioning penis would do, I went over and started talking to "D." Things went well and we ended up making out for a while, good times. Near the end of the night I got her phone number and soon after she left.

    I texted her on Tuesday to see if she wanted to have lunch on Wednesday. She replied back sure. On wednesday, we had lunch and ended up hanging out from 2 until 8 or so. The conversation went really well and it was a pretty enjoyable experience. we made plans to have watch a horror flick together. She kept saying how cute i was indirectly. I had plans already that night but after she left she sent me a text saying "thanks for today, I had a lot of fun. you make me smile." I think things went well and feel like i'm outta the friend zone but i'm not too sure.

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  2. Alaya

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    Sounds like it went well and she's interested :bigthumb: I know I definitely wouldn't agree to watch a horror flick with a guy the 2nd [3rdish] time I hung out with him if I wasn't interested :mamoru:
     
  3. bearsdidit

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    lol thanks for the encouragement. the funny thing is i told her my dvd player was broken in the living room and the only working dvd player i had in my house was the one on my computer in my bedroom. :naughty:
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

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    :bigthumb: You're good man, keep it up.
     
  5. bearsdidit

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    thanks girl, its hard not call text her but i'm going to wait another day or two. lol i told her that i wasn't going to call for another 3 days but she could text me if she wanted... and she did.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    What's your next plan of attack? Date in mind?
     
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    i'm kinda torn between inviting her over to watching a movie first or dinner.... but i was thinking like dinner, going to get some drinks somewhere then movie? she kept asking when i get off work so i'm feeling she wants to do the movie thing.
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Personally I'd dig the dinner/drinks/movie angle. Maybe do the at home date next time :naughty:
     
  9. Horror

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    First, great job. Glad you two are connecting and interested. If I were you, I would invite her over to make dinner TOGETHER.
     
  10. bearsdidit

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    i think the dinner route would work well too. i really like cooking for people but my culinary skills are kinda lacking. lol, i found out last night shes also a vegetarian so my cooking choices really get eliminated.
     
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    damn thats a pretty good idea. :bigthumb:
     
  12. ASoT

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    I think it's too soon to cook together. I would order food from a place she likes and bring it back to your place to eat and watch the movie.
     
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    eek, good thing you arent really that into food it seems, vegetarians are absolute deal breakers for me, dated them, tried really hard and i just cant deal with it. but I'm a huge cook and food buff, its comparable to a non smoker dating a smoker for me.
     
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    thats a pretty good idea. i need to write this shit down.
     
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    To soon to cook together? no way. Cooking together would be perfect I think. It give you something to talk about, and something to do for a decent amount of time.



    It sounds like you've got it locked down so far, good work my friend.
     
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    too soon to cook together? is that some rule? i've totally cooked dinner with a girl on the FIRST date and had a great time. its a fun experience that can be a bit messy therefor playful.

    if anything maybe go out to dinner first and then go home and cook dessert, only problem is any good desserts take a few hours or more to prepare.
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

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    :werd: I would've suggested cooking together earlier but I know how uncomfortable some guys get with that idea.
     
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    i think my next move is to invite her over for take out and a movie... something low key. i was thinking maybe sunday night or would that be too soon?
     
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    i'm going to wait a week. i think
     
  20. Gibles

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    Did it before and it's pretty fun. I even challenged her to a cookie-off....needless to say mine turned out worse. :(
     
  21. Horror

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    for take out? no. COOK with her. Try to make it sound fancy and end up being a disaster, it'll be hilarious.
     
  22. bearsdidit

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    i'll keep the cooking with her in mind... i want to see her on sunday but i'm thinking that'll be way too much. if we did see each other this sunday it'll be 3 times in one week. i can tell she wants to see me again and i want to see her but i need to keep it in check. :noes:
     
  23. Two toys

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    dude, dont play that shit, if you want to see her, then see her.
     
  24. Horror

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    Dot. Because if she doesn't want to see you, then you know where you guys stand if she's a quick or slow mover. Who cares.
     
  25. 1.8t

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    Chill man. Just feel the vibe out when you with her and go from there...
     

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