First date question

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  1. bjonesy77

    bjonesy77 New Member

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    Well 2 weekends ago I met this girl at a little pub near my buddies house that we drink at occasionally. We hung out at the bar all saturday night, I walked her and her friend to her car and parted ways, no big deal. Then this past friday we are are the same pub and she's there again, I go talk to her and her friend (the same one, who happens to know my brother in law from HS) and once again we hang out all night. Same thing the next night except they wanted to go to this party up the street and asked if I wanted to go. I went, had a blast with them/her, got a phone number, and they dropped me off where I was staying at my friends house (I live 20 miles north but hang out around there on weekends.)

    Well tonight, I called her to ask her out for friday night. Everything is going good and I asked what she was up to friday night, she said she didnt know, and I said "well do you want to go out to dinner?" pretty blunt, just asked. She fumbled for words at first, but a good fumble so that was cool.

    Now my question is, I think I worded it wrong. I want to take her to dinner and then to Fear Fest (kings island halloween thing) but I didn't say that when I asked her out. Should I call her back and be like "hey, I've got some tickets to fearfest too. Do you want to go after dinner friday?" or should I just leave it be and ask after dinner?

    I may be thinking WAY to far into this, as I havent had a date with a girl I randomly met in a while. (*sidenote for those who saw my last thread* Larosas girl never called me back!) So what should I do? Call her and tell her I've got tickets or just let it go and see what happens at dinner then ask her?
     
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    bjonesy77 New Member

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    I apologize if thats hard to read, I'm still pretty jittery from calling her.
     
  3. Alaya

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    call her and ask
     
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    bjonesy77 New Member

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    I just called her like an hour ago, should I call back now or wait til tomorrow or thursday?
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I say wait til the date and say you've got a surprise for afterwards....
     
  6. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Call her or text her to let her know. You want her to know to be dressed for going there too.
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Wait, better yet, text her now and say "by the way, make sure to wear comfortable clothes Friday, I've got a surpise for after the date."
     
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    she might take that one way or the other no? :hsd:
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    If se's that ignorant he can do better. I would be so excited if a guy texted me that right after confirming a date.
     
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    I thought the same thing. I dont want her to be like "oh shit, hes going to take me to a hotel or something. Fuck that I'm not going"
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Again, if she's that dumb then forget about her.

    If the girl is interested in you enough she'll be excited, which I'm sure she will. Or just call her and act awkward and ask if she'd like to go. The latter is far more boring and forgettable.
     
  12. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    You're probably right. Off I go, I'll report with results!
     
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    true, the only reason I would *still* probably encourage it, is well.. what exactly is fear fest? say... if it's some slasher film festival I wouldn't want to go to something like that at all and may actually ruin the date [if it were me]...
     
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    "by the way, wear comfortable clothes. I've got a surprise for after the date"


    Hope she isnt deathly afraid of haunted houses or something!
     
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    its a thing kings island puts on every year at halloween time. Just some haunted houses and rollercoasters and stuff
     
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    :rofl: exactly, I would rather play it safe for now until she makes a move and responds then mention it
     
  18. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    The funny thing is I hate scary movies and haunted houses, but if a guy I had an interest in surprised me with that I'd still be excited. Great way to get her to grab all over you :mamoru:
     
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    well, should I text her and be like "how do you feel about haunted houses?"
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    No way man, aloof is best.

    I'm sure she'll text you back and be all curious but don't slip up! Just keep saying "patience is a virtue! ha ha"
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Safe=boring
     
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    Thats kind of what I'm wondering about, I'm assuming she knows the date will go past dinner. I did say "want to go out to dinner?" and not "want to go out on a date?" So how do I know she isnt assuming I'm going to take her to dinner and thats it?
     
  23. Ford4Life

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    Cincinnati crew!

    You are over thinking, don't worry about it. Beer's texting idea is a good one, just go with it.
     
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    Yeah Cincinnati!

    what about assuming the date will go past dinner? am i foolish to thinks he thinks its just dinner and thats it?
     
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    I havent said anything yet. Should I go with that instead?
     

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