fingering tips?

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  1. g230sport

    g230sport New Member

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    i hate to ask such a stupid thing, but what are fingering tips, i havent fingered my gf yet, and i never have before either, any tips, suggestions and stuff is welcome :x:
     
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    Do a little research on the G-spot. It also depends on how sensitive she is down there.
     
  3. Ford4Life

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    Be gentle at first and watch her reaction to see if you need to go faster or harder.

    Oh, and go down her at the same time. Fingers + tongue, she'll love you for it.
     
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    shes a virgin, and im a virgin...

    i should have included that my original post

    soo yeah

    i need advice :o
     
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    My current gf becomes an absolute freak once she gets off on me fingering her/eating her out. Its always the best sex when it starts off that way. Just be gentle, and start off real slow with the fingering, and keep the licking to the upper part of the vagina. She'll let you know when you are hitting the g-spot. :naughty:
     
  6. Mr. Bungle

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    if she is truly a virgin fingering might not be the best idea. When I was a virgin I couldn't even use a tampon, let alone have a finger inside me. Stick to learning the tricks of good clit to tongue action :naughty:
     
  7. lauren

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    trim your nails.
    lick your finger. no dry hands please.
    harder/faster isn't always better. relax, it's not a race.
    as for the clit, some like very direct contact (think one finger) while others prefer more spread out pressure (think palm, or many fingers).
    as for direction, some like up down, some side side, some circles.
    not everyone likes penetration (initially or even at all), don't assume she does.


    when in doubt, ask her to guide you.
     
  8. mandarin orange

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    tell her to shave before you go down on her. or it'll be stinky and dirty
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

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    Once you've done it multiple times make sure to ask her what she likes.
     
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  11. g230sport

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    well so far all i have done with her is gotten her shirt off when we were making out last time

    i was feeling her up after about 10-15 minutes in

    then shirt came off after about 30 minutes

    then i went through her pants for about 5 minutes, and then went back to boobs

    and then around 40-45 minutes in id say i went down her pants, and just rubbed it for a while, she seemed to enjoy it...breathing harder, slight moans, and breathing really hard when i would kiss her neck at the same time

    so id just like to know basic fingering things, dos and dont, that kind of thing

    oh and she uses tampons instead of pads, so yeah
     
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    dude, you're both virgins. Don't come to us asking for advice on technique. Have FUN with it, LEARN from each other. If you come asking for all this advice, you are going to get huge expectations, and be crushed when they don't pan out.

    Just go with te flow, enjoy the experience of all these new things together.
     
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    Agree...it was so much fun doing the virgin to virgin thing. The first French kiss, make outs, heavy petting....ahhhh:mamoru:
     
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    seriously. how is he gonna eat out some girl that looks like a jungle. :fawk::barf:
     
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    fuck, i pride myself on my fingering ability and havent even thought about that



    although, i usually just stick my finger in a bit to get some wetness on it, how would that work out for you? if im going straight in ill have to try licking next time, but usually i like to tease around a lil for some additional foreplay. in fact, i try to give a girl an orgasm before i even fuck her.... makes for very good :boink:
     
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    i agree in that i usually wont eat out a bush, and that i prefer a girl to be clean shaven; but lets use a little more brainpower when typing up with posts in here
     
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    you could always have her lick em :o
     
  19. lauren

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    try licking your finger then lightly touching her hood. :bowdown:


    straight up fingering of the hole to get said finger wet hurts me, unless i'm already really lubed up. granted, lately i haven't been self lubing as one should.... so when my hole is fingered it's more sandpaper than pleasure.
     
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    i like where your head is at :cool:







    edit: but your av scares me :(
     
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    well, i dont just ram her home. theres a lot of foreplay so my experience has usally been the girl is pretty wet. my ex... whoooo man i wouldnt even have to go in.. she'd get so wet just the tips of her hips would do the trick


    do you mean you normally use a lubricant before sex, or that you need to "get goin"?
     
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    normally, i get almost too wet, pretty quickly. right now, i'm just dealing with it.


    meh.
     
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    (toey toey toey toey toey)
     
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    how wet is too wet?


    ive had it a few times where i could feel my abdomen was even getting wet from it.... it was great tho
     
  25. g230sport

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    okay

    so basically the best thing is to just try new stuff, see how she responds to it, if she likes, keep going, and do more stuff. if she doesnt, back off for a while?

    and when its time for sex, well somehow know?
     

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