fingering pain

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  1. stormywaters

    stormywaters Tornadoes are just wind...

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    My boyfriend and I have been fingering me for a few months now and the pain is still very bad. I hardly do 1 finger with out it hurting. We've tried using lube which helps a bit. Any advice?

    BTW: I'm a small girl (5'6" 105lbs)
     
  2. Gregsaidthat

    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    I don't know what to tell you. the only advice I would have is take it a little slower right out the gate. It shouldn't hurt at all. Never had that problem when I doing it to the ladies. Weird.
     
  3. Spiritus

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    You are a small girl. I suggest moving down on finger size, to maybe a pinky.

    That is probally the wierdest advice I have ever given anyone.
     
  4. Gregsaidthat

    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    LOL it probably is.

    Offtopic...

    What did you do fall off the face of the earth for a bit?
     
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    I would say start off slower. And relax like she mentioned ^^^.

    Eventually the pain will turn the pleasure :bigthumb:
     
  6. awdboost

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    Have you guys had intercourse yet?? Does it hurt during there too??
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Wow, I can only imagine how long sex will take to feel normal
     
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    This may sound a little far-streched... but you may have vaginismus.
    That's the extreme, though. Vaginismus is involuntary contractions in the lower 1/3rd of the vagina that cause sex [or in this case, fingering] to be painful.
    --My reference is my textbook for my Development of Human Sexuality class.

    Here is a website, though. [http://www.vaginismus.com]

    Good luck.
     
  9. demosnat

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    relax. make sure you dont have some sort of infection.
     
  10. stormywaters

    stormywaters Tornadoes are just wind...

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    Haven't
     
  11. stormywaters

    stormywaters Tornadoes are just wind...

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    I can do any finger alone and I am usually fine. It's when we start doing 2 that it really hurts.
     
  12. stormywaters

    stormywaters Tornadoes are just wind...

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    :eek3: Hope not :noes:
     
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    I agree one gf I had she was a very hard customer to please + I was new to the game myself. After a month or two I got her to relax and things were great until someone walked in without knocking and ended up getting tense again.:rofl:

    People say they miss highschool... I never look back
     
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    Hate Crime Don't Hate OT Supporter

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    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Are you really turned on when he is doing this? Do you enjoy it or are you just sitting there kinda bored waiting for him to finish? If you aren't really wet and into it then I could see why it would hurt.
     
  16. Spiritus

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    I dove into LAOT.

    It was pretty pointless and I left there for good.

    So I will be hanging around these chill spots more, homeboy.

    :mamoru:
     
  17. stormywaters

    stormywaters Tornadoes are just wind...

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    I am really wet when he does it. And we have used lube at the same time. The lube lessened the pain a little. There seems to be 2 spots where there I am tighter and there is pain.
     
  18. Spiritus

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    Are you new to sex or ?

    Usually after some exersize the problem goes away. The muscles get some exersize, not that should be taken in a negative contex because it usually goes back to normal after some absence.
     
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    Why finger when u can stimulate the clit... im sure that wont hurt!
     
  20. Spiritus

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    Why not just touch her nipple?

    Because it is sexual relations.
     
  21. vod

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    does it hurt if you do it to yourself, or just if he does it to you, or both?
     
  22. Spiritus

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    good question
     
  23. iwishyouwerebeer

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    I'm gonna call she doesn't masturbate.
     
  24. stormywaters

    stormywaters Tornadoes are just wind...

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    Yes I am new to it. We also live 180 miles apart since we are at different schools so there is quite a lot of time inbetween. This summer when I move back home however....
     
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    stormywaters Tornadoes are just wind...

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    He does it to me. I haven't done it to myself.
     

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