fingering + oral = no?

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  1. Zemo

    Zemo n00b of the year

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    I'm very good (I've been told) with both my mouth AND my hands...but if I do both at once, my girl is all "They are two different feelings and I can't concentrate on just one if you're doing both, so only one at a time"....what?
     
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    dscallaway69 New Member

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    i have never heard a woman say that. Most women I have been with have enjoyed haveing both done at the same time. No offense but maybe it is something to do with the technique you are using
     
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    Yeah that's odd. I've never heard a girl say that. They feel GREAT together!
     
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    Hmm, I've never heard one complain about that :ugh2:
    Oh well, I guess you better perfect both abilities and switch them up :hsugh:
     
  5. Zemo

    Zemo n00b of the year

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    I think a mind blowing double orgasm would change her mind...I'll let you know.
     
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    I'm that way, kind of. You get sensitive after your boy's tongue has been down there for a while.. so when my SO uses his fingers, it takes some attention away from his tongue. I can still feel it, though.. Still feels good. Just takes away feeling how sensitive it is by mixing the two sensations.
     
  7. taki

    taki i eat men like air..

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    hmmm never heard that one before...i am quite the opposite i love it when both feelings are taking over my body.... :naughty:
     
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    i prefer both too. :)
     
  9. Zemo

    Zemo n00b of the year

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    I'm starting to think this chick is just hyper-sensative.....I mean, after 5 or 10 minutes of oral (depending on how innovative I'm being) she can cum two or three times...what kind of time do the rest of you chica's require?
     
  10. noon

    noon get high and teach me how to listen

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    my girlfriend has told me that before as well
     
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    I don't cum from oral.
     
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    ahh thats no fun!
     
  13. Zemo

    Zemo n00b of the year

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    Given the right oral, I bet you would.....where are you located? :naughty:
     
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    has anyone ever told you that you have beautiful eyes?;)
     
  15. chica&buddies

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    :bowdown: word... i wouldn't have it any other way!
     
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    My GF doesn't real cum from oral either, I've tried, she likes it, but she never really goes over the edge (even with fingering etc, which she does like). Intercourse/Insertion on the other hand is easy to get her off with.
     
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    I'm the opposite too. I love when my boyfriend does both at the same time!!!
     
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    i can cum from oral but it takes some time.... usually i can only cum when he uses mouth AND fingers... + i have to be in mood, otherwise i dont get off at all. i mean i have fun but i dont get off.
    in regards to ur girl... how about you accept what she said and you do what she wants???? just my 2 cents...
     
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    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Her mosa? ITS MY MOSA!!!
    Neither do I
     
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    me either :wtc:
     
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    56 sec is my best time (dry to climax, no foreplay). but, that doesn't equal best orgasm. im not hypersensitve, i just had a really good connection with my boyfriend. with other guys, its more like 2-4 min depending on the goal.
     
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    Same here, but it's not a big deal for me...other ways are more satisfying anyway. :bigthumb:

    Back to the original topic; if she doesn't like both then I'd say to just accept that. I could understand how they could be distracting when done together, and if she finds it distracting (and is telling you) then she's obviously finding it more difficult to climax. Maybe it just feels better to her with one or the other rather than both, in which case you should just listen to what she's telling you & go with that.
     
  23. I cum in about a minute of fingering, i squirt in about 2 mins, and then i squirt for as long as i can till its all come out :)

    i dont like being eatin out and fingered at the same time
     
  24. chica&buddies

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    i've never been able to get off on oral... until now. :bowdown: it's freakin awesome! or should i say he's awesome? :o...

    anyways... if she's communicating what she doesn't like, then try something different. communication is key! i want to please the person i'm with. :dunno: i've never been really shy since being with a guy that would communicate EVERYTHING. :mamoru: he formulated my technique for giving blowjobs...i implemented it, and even tho i ask if there's anything i can do different or better... i never get any complaints.
     
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    Maybe you really just suck at both of them and she can only concentrate enough to fake it when you're doing one.
     

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