Fingered my gf sober for the first time

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  1. Ricer

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    What are some hints that i did it well? i think she enjoyed it but im not 100% sure, she told me to go harder a little into it because i didnt want to hurt her, then i went harder and i check up on her arround the end to see if i was going too hard, she moaned for a bit then told me she was finished... what are some things your gf/girls do that prove to you that they enjoyed it?

    cliffs: Fingered her, think she liked it but not 100% sure
     
  2. Ricer

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  4. Ricer

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    sorry man not on ot
     
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    lol by what you said, I'm pretty sure she didnt orgasimed and lied.
     
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    Generally when they go absolutely nuts moaning and pushing back and then their vag clamps down hard on your fingers and they relax with an involuntary shudder... :cool:


    sounds more than a bit like she lied.. don't waste time bitching her out about whether she was being truthful though, practice makes perfect :)
     
  7. Ricer

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    k man thx for the info... my parents were upstairs though so she couldnt be too loud... but ya i think u guys are right.. w/e ill get better
     
  8. Ricer

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    actually the more i think about it the more i dont think she faked it cus she got pretty wet and moaned quite a bit.. just not really loud she was keeping it down she also look pleased herself after

    any imput with other guys?
     
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    she lied about going dosent mean she didnt like it though..
     
  10. Pinksmartie

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    Yeah, what GP said is true. She's probably just isn't quite used to it, but practice does make perfect - next time ask her to show you what she likes and what she doesn't, which will guarentee she enjoys it and you'll know exactly what to do for next time :)
     
  11. Ricer

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    ya after i was done i told her she needed to talk to me more so thats good
     
  12. Improvolone

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    Talk to her about sex during a non-sexual time.
     
  13. Ricer

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    and wuts that gonnahelp?
     
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    Everything...
     
  15. Ricer

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    k man ill get on that lol
     
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    i u can't tell, then u prolly fucked up
     
  17. Kinks

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    :rofl:


    seriously though, the best thing you can tell her is to be honest. if she doesn't come, she just has to say "sorry, I lost it" and then take a break for a few minutes. and you need to say "that's cool" and go back to something light and relaxed.

    don't focus on the orgasm either - it's not a prize or the finish line or anything like that (especially with women! they keep going!). if you're obsessed with asking her whether she came then it'll ruin it. just do what feels good.
     
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    I sometimes find out that i've been spelling words wrong my whole life, like I used to spell it "definately" instead of "definitely".

    Just to save you embarrassment in the future, it is spelled "input".
     
  19. chapstick

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    You didnt get her off, doesnt mean she didnt like it though.

    Much easier if you can see what you are doing, just aim for the clit with one finger and use the other hand to stick it in or just go down on her, infinitely easier to get off.

    they arch their back and moan and shake and clench up etc when they orgasm, you cant miss it, alot get really sensitive after and tell you to stop.
     
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    if the nipples are hard after "orgasm" she got off.
     
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    1. Ask her "Did you enjoy yourself."
    2. Do NOT ask her if you did a good job, but rather "Anything else I can do better next time?" if she didn't
    3. If the skin on her chest, upper arms, and face flushes red ("sex flush") she had an orgasm - she can't lie about that.
     
  22. AQT4u2NV

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    Ugh, no. My nipples being hard can mean a variety of things from "Hmm, I'm cold" or "Wow, this is exciting", it doens't mean I got off though
     
  23. CaliHaze

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    grab her hand and ask her to show you where it feels good. some girls are all about the clit stimulation, while some like it deep inside. honestly fingering is a waste of time to me. you should be moving on to bigger and better things, but hey i guess you are keeping it safe right? practice makes perfect.
     
  24. GSRwBOOST

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    best sign that i can think of is the sheets are soaked ;)
     
  25. Improvolone

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    wet!=orgasm
     

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