FRK Finger licking?

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  1. Nikolette

    Nikolette New Member

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    Whenever my boyfriend fingers me he always wipes his finger which is such a turnoff! Other guys I;ve been with always lick their fingers after. Is there a nice way to mention it's really hot if he licks his fingers? I mean by wiping them it makes me feel not wanted, like he doesn't like it. Also,when he eats me out, he rarely tongue fucks which drives me crazy (but not in the good way). I know I dont taste bad bc got lots of compliments but its totally turning me off...plus I can cum easier if he does tongue fuck. Any suggestions to tell him to do it?
     
  2. Nikolette

    Nikolette New Member

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    Also, how does a girl tell a guy she wants him to go down on her? It seems natural for guys to say "give me head" but I feel trashy if i say "eat my pussy" any suggestions to get him to do it more often??
     
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    1) talk to him about it when not engaged in sexual play.

    2) just tell him to do it while u guys are foolin around... sometimes it just takes a little forwardness to spark him into doing it. then, afterwards, tell him how much u liked it... and that he should do it again.

    different people do things differently.. he may not be a tongue fuckin kinda guy... i'm not... cuz my girl doesnt seem to get that much from it, and my tongue is more wide than it is long.. so it doenst accomplish much, lol.
     
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    I think your best bet would be to tell him what you want, what you like, etc. Any kind of sexual relationship can benefit from open lines of communcation. Next time hes goin down on you, say "tongue fuck me baby, slide your tongue inside me, I love the way it feels" I would think, unless hes got a huge hangup on that, hed find it VERY hot and pick up on the fact that you enjoy it. He wont lick his fingers, huh? How about next time you're gettin busy, start to finger yourself, lick your own fingers(bound to turn him on), go back in for another dip and then say "Your turn". If he doesnt jump at the chance to stuck those digits clean, I would think hes just has somethin major against it. Some people can be as kinky and openly sexual as they come, but still just have oddball hang ups. As for hintin that you want head, I just tell my guy, "Babe, bury your head bt my thighs" He gets the hint, I get the head, we switch, everyones happy. Speak up and enjoy!
     
  5. Heyhey

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    I think if you were to say "eat my pussy"during one of your heated moments may turn him on. But then again if he isnt as adventurous he may think the opposite. Personally i think its a turn on if a girl was to tell a guy to eat their pussy. But im sure that there is always a time and place to really say that phrase, i.e when you just wnat fast hard bumpin and grindin porn action, but if you are having nice slow sex thats prolly not the time.....or is it?!?!?
     
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    My girl has no problem giving me a shoulder or head nudge when she wan't sme to go down on her. What happens if I come up before she's cum? I get a stiffarm and a :nono:.
     
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    Natas O&A Party Rock

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    I like it when SHE licks my fingers after I pull them out
     
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    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    Just grab him by the hair and push him down there. Nothing wrong with being a little assertive in bed.
     
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    trigger-hippy Made in Scotland

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    lead by example, when he's done, before he wipes grab his hand and suck some off yourself, then direct his hand towards his own mouth
     
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    I would feel really werid because I never asked a girl to give be a bj. i don't know how to ask a girl that. i ate a girl out but it just happen with out asking. But never got that favorit in return for some head. :ugh:
     
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    imori Phasma En Machina

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    try masterbating for him and licking your fingers after you are done.


    I always liked that.
     

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