FRK Finger a good way to warm up to anal?

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  1. BlindSyde

    BlindSyde New Member

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    I told the GF the other day about this, and she said we could try it. But is that a good way to warm up to things? Anal doesn't really turn me on that much, but I think she wants to try it again, since shes the one that mentioned we'd go down the road of it. :dunno:
     
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    I can't STAND fingers.. get a small dildo... and just make sure to use lots of lube and make sure she's relaxed...
     
  3. BlindSyde

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    Hmm, I've thought about telling her to just forget it. We don't have the money to get any toys right now :sad2: So, maybe I'll just tell her that I'll stick to the vagina :o
     
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    Fingers worked fine for my girlfriend, start with 1 and lots of lube, then work your way up to 2, 3 and if you're huge, 4.

    Do NOT get a desensitizing lube.
     
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    buy her a small butt plug
     
  6. BlindSyde

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    I've decided against it :o
     
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    jmechy Calmer then you are.

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    do NOT decide against it. Anal is amazing. I don't know what your sex situation, but I have to use condoms for PV sex. No condoms needed for anal. Also, her ass was SO tight, i collapsed on top of her when i came. She also apparently liked it quite a bit, she wants me to do it again. Give it a shot, I'm sure you wont regret it.
     
  8. BlindSyde

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    Eh, I'll pass, and it doesn't turn her on. Not even the thought of it, nor does it really me honestly
     
  9. Cerridwen

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    Just because one woman posts she can't stand fingers doesn't mean every woman does ;)
    If your woman wants to try it out, what would you be hurting really? You DON'T *need* toys imo.
    I need to be really really horny though. I don't really like a lot of lube either :o Start out normal and work your way into teh ass. NEVER go from the ass to the vag though!!
     
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    What I said still stands, and that wasnt the reason I decided against it.
     
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    take it from a trysexual. Try something atleast once before you comepletely turn away from it. You don't have to do try it now. BUT atleast try it once, twice if you like it. Alsways be willing to try something new. You never knowif you'll like it later.
     
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    If he is turned off by the idea, don't pressue him into doing it.
     
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    Well, for future reference...

    If you two ever decide to try again in the future, you can buy small plugs for $10-$15 (after shipping) at a lot of places online. There's also the option of fingers, but I suggest picking up a box of finger condoms just in case she wasn't fond of the finger texture. You can find them in the first aid section of most stores for about $1.50 for a box of 25 or so. :)
     
  14. Cerridwen

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    Are you sure? Why would she have brought it up if it didn't turn her on?
     
  15. BlindSyde

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    I'm very sure. Just because she mentions it, doesn't mean it turns her on :hsugh:

    Matter of fact, it means JACK SHIT.
     
  16. BlindSyde

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    Anyways, can a nigga get a lock on this :x:
     
  17. xela

    xela So say we all!

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    Ask and you shall receive!
     
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