finally grew some balls and broke up with her....

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  1. LS Boy

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    well, i did it....broke up with her tonight!


    first thing first.....she dissed me last night and really pissed me off...and she been really shady to me lately and FLAKEY (my pet peeves).

    anyways, i txt her today and called her coz i wanted to wish her happy easter...she never called me or txt me back.


    after several calls, i used my friends phone and she stilll not picking up.....then i saw her online, and then i mssg her saying why she hasnt called me or pick up my calls...she said she dont wanna talk...wtf. so i ask why...she never replied....


    i called her cell again, like 10times...then she finally picked up....she said she got a cold and dont wanna talk...so i told her "you know what, imma do you a favor and lets just end this now"

    she didnt hasitate on replying and said "OK"

    then we both hung up.



    then 20min later she called.....i picked up and she didnt answer :wtf:


    then thats it.





    all i need now is to stay strong. :x:



    i dont wanna get back with her or take her back either-----i just have to be strong :wtc:
     
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    You did the right thing. Fair for her, and fair for you. Now, get out there and start enjoyin a drama free life.
     
  3. Isolt78

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    Good work :)
     
  4. LS Boy

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    OH FUCKING AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA






    she just called me.....i didnt pick up and she called MORE AND MORE MORE MORE MORE..


    i had to pick it up and guess what?


    SHES FUCKING CRYING HER ASS OUT....FUCK! :sad2:
     
  5. it seems like you break up with her and get back with her on a weekly basis....make up your mind
     
  6. LS Boy

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    exactly! :wtc:


    i gotta be strong this time..
     
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    call cell phone provider, request a new telephone number. She cant call you anymore, that is one problem out of the way.
     
  8. LS Boy

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    i always wonder about this.....do they charge you if you request to change your number?
     
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    $20-30. Pretty damn priceless if it means you get some sanity in exchange.
     
  10. LS Boy

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    i just called tmobile.....and its free.

    imma give it couple days....and see
     
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    :bigthumb:
     
  12. chica&buddies

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    :eek3: :bigthumb: :rofl:

    good job... but i never thought you'd do it on easter :rofl:. let's hope she stops being psycho soon. :hs:
     
  13. LS Boy

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    she wont stop crying...i told her that no matter what she aint gonna change. damn, i said ALOT Of mean things to her :eek3: :eek3:

    i felt bad :noes:
     
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    Don't feel bad, if the mean things were truth's and how you truly feel.

    She ignored you completely. A lotta people have that pet peeve. I dropped a girl for that same reason 4 days before valentines day. She ignored me for the whole weekend and week before. There's no way women don't know that the worst thing to do is ignore their man. Typically it takes a whole 5 minute convo and everythings fine. And i guarantee she was talking to other people during that stint. If she didn't wanna talk to anyone, cause she was sick, why was she on aim/yahoo? (yeah i realize she probably lied, and just didn't wanna talk to him, but why be with someone if you ignore them all the time)
     
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    give her time to relax and chill back. shes crying right now, but u never know shes abusing her emotions to get back with u.

    i say dont get in contact with her for about 3 days, 1 week tops. but do not ignore her for the rest of her life, shes your friend now, not an enemy. and dont go around giving all the chicks a tatse of your weiner cause thats just more depressing for her as well.

    so no contact for 3 days, dont "see" other girls, do call her everyday cause that'll make it seem like you still got something for her... unless u do, let her call you, if she just crys, just tell her "you know what, call me back when you grow up" or "you know what, quit crying like a baby, call me back whenever your ready"
     
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    sounds like you did the right thing. she doesn't appreciate you, so why would you stay with someone like that? ... you're correct, people rarely change in life :hs:

    stay strong :bigthumb:
     
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    Some people hate being dumped, regardless if they were the reason or not.
     
  18. Lad

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    Sometimes when you are the maddest, the truth comes out in things you say. While it may be harsh how you say it, the root is probably the truth.

    For instance: "I fucking hate you, you lying whore. Go suck some random dudes dick bitch"
    Well lets deduce this. Say said woman was cheating on you. While the way it came out was mad fuxd.... It is the truth. Said person didnt like the woman cause she cheated and they let her know.....
     
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    man, i envy you. good job slappy!
     
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    Yeah..same here..same with me and this guy that I just ended things with. His mom called me last night bitching at me basically saying that everything that is wrong with him is my fault. I am staying strong though. It hurts like hell but it will be better in the end. I have been trying to meet new people and shit and I actually have a date tomorrow night! yay! This guy knows what has been going on with the boy and shit and we just want to take things slow...but hey, good luck man:) Best wishes all the way!
     
  21. krott5333

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    dont answer her damn calls, just ignore her completely, cold turkey, just like smoking!
     
  22. Vegasoutkast

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    stay stong and move on ........ life is to short for dumb ass games like that!
     
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    bout fuckin time. good work :p
     
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    update? how you holding up man
     
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    good man.
     

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