finally got the courage to get a girl's phone number.

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  1. paranoidandroid

    paranoidandroid New Member

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    dumb question. but, now what do i do? obviously call her but i need specific advice. thanks.
     
  2. Boudreaux

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    have plans thought up before you call her too.
     
  3. Vysion

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    Call her up and breath heavily into the phone without saying a word... girls love that! :mamoru:
     
  4. Ford4Life

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    It's not hard. Call and say "Do you want to go on a date on (Fill in day here)."

    Have it planned out already before you ask her, where you are going, etc.
     
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    filho do deus New Member

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    make sure you use the word DATE
     
  6. D7

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    We need the pros to write a thread for this for the Most Common Threads
     
  7. Vysion

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    Fixed.
     
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    call her whenever you feel like it. dont listen to any advice saying "wait X amount of time". if she likes you it wont matter.

    call her w. an idea of what you want to do. be upfront not all wussy "ummm i was wondering if... ummm.... you would like to go bowling... if you want".

    tell her its a DATE.
     
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    invite her to go camping and bring a bro and a tent....

    this is the best thing to do next
     
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    why wouldnt you use the word date?
     
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    if she's cute I'll be your bro for the weekend and I already have a tent or two to choose from.
     
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    Tell her that you are in need of that poontang thing that she has going on and you are the right BRO to give her exactly what she needs.

    On a serious note: Don't be coy on the phone with her. Show your true intentions up front and be confident about what you want from her. Women can smell desperation, a mile away. I know from experience, :mamoru:. Other than that, you should be golden.
     
  13. paranoidandroid

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    thanks guys. im just trying to figure out what to go out and do with her mainly. i can be a huge pussy when it comes to stuff like this haha. i absolutely hate calling girls. blerg.
     
  14. antihero

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    just remember to breath and talk slowly and calmly, even though you are going to be excited. Its easy to get talking way too fast when you are nervous/excited.
     
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    ask if she's going to the bbq.

    on a more serious note, decide what you'd like to do, call her and set up plans, say good-bye and hang up. don't dawdle on the phone.
     
  16. Mugen92GS-R

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    I'm with the people that say DON'T use the word date... if you don't know the girl THAT well it could turn her off before she even gets to know you... just invite her out to do something together and THEN make your intentions be known physically by flirting and touching.

    Nothing sounds more corny than "HEY LETS GO ON A DATE"
     
  17. paranoidandroid

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    any suggestions on what to go do? what do you guys usually do on a first date????
     
  18. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    if the girl is attracted to you it does not fucking matter if you say date or not..
     
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    very true
     
  21. paranoidandroid

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    im going to say "rendezvous". that way she thinks im a communist.
     
  22. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Or she'll think you're gay :hsugh:

    Just say "Hey lets get together and go do _____" or "Hey I'm going to go do _______ on _____, you should join me. You game?"

    Just remember the KISS principle... keep it simple and direct, don't try to come off sounding all fancy or anything. You want to start off the bat treating her and the arranging of plans as you would with anyone else you do things with so she's used to the "normal" you.
     
  23. Mugen92GS-R

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    Well duh, which is why it's useless to say it. If she's interested, it doesn't matter if you say date or not - she'll still go with you, but if she is on the FENCE or hasn't had the chance to get interested in you, saying date could hurt your chances.
     
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    "Hey (xxx) it's (xxx). I was calling to see if you wanted to go out bowling Friday night."

    Just think of an activity, ask her to go with you. If you already have some fun social event planned, invite her along.
     
  25. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    That's really good advice actually.


    Take her out for put-put :dunno:
     

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