Finally did the closure.....

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  1. LS Boy

    LS Boy OT Supporter

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    .....as you all know..my gf and i broke up a week ago.....since then she been trying to get a hold of me----calling me and txting me. but i never pick up and replied.


    today, she txt me and wanted to come over. so i just gave in and i let her.

    she got to my house---she took a shower and we had a rough sex :o


    anyways....after we fucked....she wanted to know whats going on between us... i told her "you wanted a break and im giving it to you----but im not gonna be a layaway and be here waiting for you"

    and her reply was "but i miss you"

    then i said "too bad, im tired of your bullshit and all the shit you put me thru....im done with this"


    then she walked out in the living room and started to pack her things and left. then she chilled by the door and waited for me.


    so i went there and see whats up? then she said "so you dont wanna be with me anymore?"

    and i said "no, coz you wanted a break and i never wanted to break up with you coz this is high school shit and im sick of this......you want a break---here it is. its all you and you dont need to talk to me anymore. we should just MOVE ON and see other people"

    then she said "can i get a kiss?"

    my reply "no" she said "why not?" i replied, "for what? theres no need to" then she said "please? can i?" and i said again, "no..no more. thats it. we should just move on" .....

    then she said "bye" and walked away.

    and i kindly close the door after her :hs:






    it was REALLLLY hard for me to resist....but i had to do what i gotta do. im sure imma miss her----but its life. :wtc: :wtc: :wtc:
     
  2. Mojo

    Mojo New Member

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    hats off to you. got pu-tang and still stood by your position. and yet, straight to the point
     
  3. Coco Monkey

    Coco Monkey OT Supporter

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    good man. way to stay strong. you're doing the best thing for both of you right now.
     
  4. Soulfire

    Soulfire No Pain, No Gain

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    You got balls there bro. Gratz to that shit.
     
  5. ninetalesnwf

    ninetalesnwf New Member

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    Amen.... Its a hard thing to do like that
     
  6. quamen

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    good job and guess what she will be back or calling u in a couple days.
     
  7. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    now to see if it lasts...
     
  8. armond

    armond New Member

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    yes, time will be your test, but I am sure you will be fine bro!
     
  9. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    They always do.... but now's the time not to answer or reply to voicemails/txts.
     
  10. LS Boy

    LS Boy OT Supporter

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    yes time is my only challenge.
    and i almost pussied out last night too---but good thing, i took my time to reply to her question and told her to just move on. :wtc:
     
  11. kevin1

    kevin1 New Member

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    What did she ask?

    Make sure you don't let these little things add up and get to you, stand by what you said and you should be fine.
     
  12. SeeVinceRun

    SeeVinceRun Currently In Prison OT Supporter

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    You got ass, and you retained your man-card. Im impressed.

    Seriously though, good job getting out of a volatile situation. Im happy for you.
     
  13. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    Dude, read your user text, it's a good option in this situation. Go out and have some fun (but not with her obviously...).
     
  14. JordanClarkson

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    Great job. That whole "but I miss you. can I have a kiss?" is pure manipulation. All she wanted to do was BREAK you. She likes having you by a string and doesn't want to give that up. But next time just say that she doesn't do it for you anymore.
     
  15. purplebeast

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    Good for u. Now go get some new poontang ASAP so the pussy draw dont break ur will down.
     
  16. islanderman7

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    rough, but goood
     
  17. LS Boy

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    it hurts :(
     
  18. okita1

    okita1 Great spirits have always encountered violent oppo

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    it will pass in time, stick to your guns
     
  19. RockChick

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    good job but why exactly did you fuck her? that just made her think everything is ok... sure you did a great job afterwards but... why?!
     
  20. okita1

    okita1 Great spirits have always encountered violent oppo

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    because she came over wanting it, and he had no commitments to anyone, what guy would turn that down?
     
  21. LS Boy

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    well....last time we talked was monday---then she didnt call me nor i called her at all. but on thursday....she keeps on calling me and txting me throughout the day. same thing happened on friday----saturday.....then sunday...i just gave in and answered to her txt and asking "what the fuck do you want" then she said she wanted to talk and i told her its over blah blah...then she keep insisting to come over to have a "REAL FACE TO FACE" talk....so i gave her the oppurtunity.

    then she came over...while i was in bed...she wanted a SIMPLE HUG. then she keep on kissing me but i wasnt paying attn----then it started from there :o

    after sex....this is what happened (read first post).


    then next day she kept on calling me and txting me again.....then i ignored. then she wanted to go to dinner and i said no.

    then last night i got fed up with it and txt her "Im asking you nicely and please delete my name off your phone----and dont call me, txt me anymore. i dont want anything to do with you anymore." then she replied "damn! harsh" :o

    then she txt me back again saying its deleted. hopefully she did.
     
  22. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    How did she text you back if it was deleted... :)
     
  23. purplebeast

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    Ur right. Because it is absolutely IMPOSSIBLE for anyone to know a number my heart.
     
  24. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    wtf? Nothing wrong with saying you dont want anything to do with anyone anymore.. that isn't being harsh
     
  25. LS Boy

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    sometimes i think i did came out harsh...but sometimes i think it was appropriate. as much as i miss her now---i THINK ill be happier in the long run. she did put me thru alot and wasnt as a good gf as she suppose to.

    i did what i can to patch up the hole in the boat----but after awhile, it keeps on making new ones and my boat finally sank :wtc: :wtc: :wtc:
     

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