Fiance's Trip Update

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  1. JBunni

    JBunni New Member

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    All you haters can suck it. The trip was great.

    :) It was the two of us, and our friend. He got time with his family, I got time with mine. We hung out, and our friend totally clicked with the families.

    While we were there, fiance's mom and I got to talk and connect. After we came back, she wrote me a letter about how thankful she was we came down.

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    Glad it was a good trip.
     
  3. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Aww!! <3 That was a really sweet note she sent you. I'm so glad the trip went well :big grin:
     
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  6. Infection

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    I, as a young male adult, would kill to have my future fiance's mom send me that.
     
  7. JBunni

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    Thanks for the support :big grin: I really appreciate it.
     
  8. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :werd: I think that's really saying something.


    JBunni- you want to get on her really good side, write her a thank you note for inviting you into her home and tell her how much you appreciated the opportunity to connect with her. Mom's love thank you notes. ;)
     
  9. Infection

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    dot. EDIT: Should she entitle it "Mom" or something?
     
  10. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Nooo. :nono: Mrs. LastName. Always.

    Unless she specifically told her to address her differently (Mom, Jenny, Mrs. J etc..) And even then I'd probably still address her as Ms. FirstName. But that's just me.
     
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    We are at a Mrs. FirstName right now. I am going to write her back, just been busy thus far, still a lot of planning left to do.
     
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    :rofl:

    If it weren't for us "haters," you never would've went in the first place. :rofl:
     
  13. JBunni

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    Actually, I dont mean you, I mean people who dont give advice, but rather critque, without fully knowing the situation or the people involved. I did appreciate your individual input.
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I'm confused why people have to "suck it?"

    I mean it's awesome that after 3 years together your fiancé's mom is finally making you feel welcome to their family...but that wasn't even why everyone gave you a hard time in your last thread. Most told you to stay home because it was obvious you were only really going because you smother the poor guy and are too selfish and insecure to spend a weekend without him knowing he would be seeing friends and his family that had previously made comments about just wanting to see him.

    But again, congrats on his mom accepting you.
     
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    sounds like it went well... :wigle:
     
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    See, here is the judging/critque I'm talking about. I dont know why you have to turn all of my posts on me, but its SOO getting old. :nono:

    Its hard to be part of the family, from 500 miles away. Shes never been mean or excluding me, she just wants the best for her son, as she said. I wasnt going to smother him, although we probably have different definitions for smothering. He had a great time and thanked me several times for coming with him. Maybe your man doesnt like it when you are around, but mine does. Wanting to be with him does not make me insecure. But please, continue to misconstrue everything I say and act 'superior'.
     
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    :big grin:

    Love your new avatar btw
     
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    It all turned out great, his family accepted you, and I'm sure he was happy to have his soon to be wife come with him. But what you just posted makes me think you didn't even read the other thread... which is impossible because it was your thread.
     
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    ?? I didnt want him to go, hence the post. Not because I HAD to be with him, but because I didnt feel it was the right time for it. There were other factors but I'm not sure how to word them, so they got lumped in with 'I really dont want him to go". But I realized, after talking with him, and reading the replies that he really wanted/needed this trip.
     
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  22. iwishyouwerebeer

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    I sometimes wonder if she has split personality disorder
    :bowrofl: What's getting old is how in denial you are, it's actually pretty frightening.

    I'm going to quote all the times in your original thread that you said the EXACT opposite of what you just said now :hsugh:

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    And by the way, it's apparent by making this thread that even you weren't expecting this trip to go well. If you were, you wouldn't be so elated and shocked by his mother's letter and you also wouldn't be back in the forum making a thread to say "NAH NAH, TOLD YOU ALL!!!"
     
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    Again, different definitions of smothering. I dont think wanting to be with him/in the same city as him is smothering. And quite frankly, I dont see how how what I said contradicts any of that.

    IN DENIAL OF WHAT???

    I wasnt sure how the trip was going to go. It went better than expected, but I never thought it would suck or be horrible. I figured it would be like it always is. We are nice, civil, friendly, but this time we got to talk one on one and connect. Why shouldnt I be happy about this?? She didnt have to send me a e-mail either, she could of just left it.

    I made this thread for all those who think i'm insane for wanting to be with my fiance, for those who think our relationship will end cuz we want to be together, for those like yourself who are CONVINCED we are going to fail, because we dont fit into your ideal of what a relationship is.
     
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    FYI: none of those reasons are why people think your relationship is going to fail.
     
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