SRS Fiance missed period

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  1. MrBrotato

    MrBrotato New Member

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    Her period was supposed to be on the 28th of December, but she had been sick before for a couple days, massively sick throwing up all the time then got better, I've heard this can mess up a schedule (hers was not very regular anyway). She started birth control pills for the first time on the 30th even though her period had not come.

    Still no period, will it just not happen until the next one since she just started the pills, or is there something else to be worried about?

    I may or may not have pulled out in time a while ago :\. Wedding is in 6 months, will she be huge or ok? 11tyugh
     
  2. Dreams2Reality

    Dreams2Reality saywhat

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    These possible-pregnancy issues can be pretty damn stressing, I've been in the situation a couple times.

    First and foremost, relax. Chances are she isn't pregnant, especially if she has been on BC regularly. Secondly, get a pregnancy test. None of us are Ms. Cleo, we can't foresee the future and what it includes for you.
     
  3. McLovin

    McLovin New Member

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    Seriously. For $10 it'll ease your mind





    ...Or be the catalyst for your suicide
     
  4. MrBrotato

    MrBrotato New Member

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    :rofl: Best thing I've heard all year.

    The thing I'm most worried about is her being huge during the wedding and not being happy about it. May do the test, have to buy it in another town though, amazingly small town ftl.
     
  5. Kirbys Autumn

    Kirbys Autumn Mrs. Kirby McSpic

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    Well, the size of a belly during pregnancy depends on the woman. I knew a girl that was very skinny and she had this huge belly! Whereas another girl, even skinnier, she was like 5 months and you could barely see a bump. Has another friend, she wasn't super skinny, but thick, you could tell after 2 months she was pregnant. And now at 5 she's HUGE! All depends on the woman.
     
  6. Rivehn

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    Can't get her pregnant through the eye.
     
  7. registeredPORK

    registeredPORK Happy Poo Poo

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    One, she should of taken a pregnancy test before starting a birth control pills. If she has started taking her birth control pills a few weeks prior to this, then her BC should be working.

    If you're unsure, then just get a pregnancy test. Like they said, it'll ease your mind.
     
  8. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    be sure to regulate her diet, for the health of the baby.
     
  9. Redbeard

    Redbeard OT Supporter

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    Dont worry, be happy.
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Ok:
    1. She's sick, which can effect when she gets her period
    2. She just started BC, which can effect when she gets her period
    3. She's probably stressing about not getting her period, which can effect when she gets her period

    Get what I'm saying? Go buy a pregnancy test RIGHT NOW just to ease your mind, but she's most likely fine. Her being "fat" at your wedding should be the least of your worries :rolleyes:
     
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    Stress from the holidays can make it late as can sickness. Don't freak out yet. Get a test and if it's positive or negative at least you'll know. Test suggestion is EPT.
     
  12. MrBrotato

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    Today she told me she has been steadily gaining weight but thought it might just be her holiday diet, probably do a test this weekend.

    :hyper:
     
  13. polishillusion

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    this is funny - i dated a chick who had a constant period for a month because of the stress of dating me. my best friends chick had no period for 3 months once because of who knows what.
     
  14. MrBrotato

    MrBrotato New Member

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    Stress of dating you? :rofl:

    Yeah, women are complicated machines.
     
  15. MrBrotato

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    Pretty much my motto, I'm happy with whatever, but I dislike it when other people are not, and I fear other people may not be happy about this happening so soon :\.
     
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    trust me, those periods were because her body was telling her what her mind could not figure out - I was bad news at that point. Very. Bad. News.
     
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    If your wedding is in 6 months then why the stress?

    So you have the kid a whee bit earlier then expected. No big deal.
    I mean, the thing about getting married while pregnant is that it implies that you are getting married BECAUSE you are getting married. That implies you are getting married for the wrong reasons and your relationship is doomed.

    But in your case you had already decided to get married and then she got pregnant. You are getting married for good reasons.
    Just be upfront with everyone. When talking to people about your pregnant wife and upcoming marriage make a joke about how fertile your wife is, that you gave her the engagement ring and than BLAMMO she got pregnant.

    That is what happened to use. I gave my wife the engagement ring and then 2 weeks later she was pregnant.
    Then we had a miscarriage. But now we are half way through our 3rd pregnancy (first without a miscarriage).
     
  18. registeredPORK

    registeredPORK Happy Poo Poo

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    Women gain wait when they're taking the pills usually. So the steadily gaining wait might be just the BC. :dunno:
     
  19. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :hsugh: Why do people wait to do things like this? It makes no sense.
     
  20. Handsom3

    Handsom3 Our wrongs remain unrectified and our souls won't

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    Chances are they would rather worry about the worst rather than face it head on.
     
  21. MrBrotato

    MrBrotato New Member

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    To be honest, I'm not too worried about it. Knowing won't change anything. Also crazy schedules with lots going on recently.
     
  22. Robynchick

    Robynchick OT is going to get me fired..... too late! i alre

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    your profile says you are 21... and you are getting married? I can see why you are thinking it is a bit too early to be birthing children! good luck.
     
  23. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Pee test takes 3 minutes...I'm sure she has a moment to spare :hsugh:
     

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