Few questions regarding female organsms & squirting

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  1. MadEmperor

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    Few questions regarding female orgasms & squirting

    I've been with my gf for 2yrs now, I'm her 2nd. That said, she says she's never had a orgasm during sex, just from masturbating.

    Question 1
    Sometimes after sex she says she just wants to lay there for quite a minute, as the *feeling" is still there after we're done. That sounds like an Orgasm to me, does that just mean she was close?

    Question 2
    My gf likes to be fingered from time to time, and after finding out what she likes best I found it's best to just rub the area right behind the clit with firm pressure. After I do this for a minute or two she squirts quite a lot (enough to warrant having a towel on hand.) She said it feels amazing, but again, has only had orgasms by masturbating. The liquid kind of smells like pee, but I don't think she peed (could be wrong, not 100%). Does this sound like a Orgasm/skirt to you?

    Sorry if these questions have been addressed many times before (I searched around for a bit to get a good reference on skirting ect)
     
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  2. julia!

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    sounds like orgasms to me.
     
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    Sounds like she has had orgasms and just hasn't realized it for some reason...
     
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    B00M I speak of peace while covert enmity

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    Orgasms from direct clitoral stimulation can and often do feel differently than orgasms from insertion. Has she ever orgasmed from head? If so try going down on her and bringing her to orgasm followed by immediate insertion, it can be tricky to stay hard but the rewards are stellar!!! It brings on a whole new kind of simultaneous clitoral/ G-spot super orgasm...or at least it does with me:cool:
     
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    She doesn't seem to get off to much on oral. I've tried several different techniques and did some reading but so far not a much luck :hsd:
    She says she likes it, but rarely asks for it and doesn't get to far into it :wtc:
     
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    From what I have seen, women who can squirt have no problem orgasming easily and repeatedly.
     
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    B00M I speak of peace while covert enmity

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    Sounds like she's uncomfortable...age could be a factor if she's under 20 her hormones just might not be there yet.

    If she's over twenty try this...
    Go down but don't focus on the clit. Act like she's a really tasty piece of candy. take your thumb and put a little bit of pressure on the vaginal curve just above the clit while you're doing your thing down there ...massage in a counter clockwise direction. Don't get to excited and put too much pressure. If she's ticklish at all don't touch the clit but keep up the thumb massage while you give baby kisses to her lips and lightly tounge her labial folds If she hasn't yet cum from head it will take a really long time over an hour and she will get self conscious about whether you're having a good time or not and try to have vag. sex just to get it over with so to speak. Make her think head is all you're interested in. Beg if you have to. When she seems more relaxed kiss the clit softly sort of pursing your lips out and use a wide soft tounge. It's kind of like she's a puzzle even she doesn't know how to solve. Slow and steady wins the race ...even the slightest appearance of frustration from you and it won't happen. When she cums from head it will be a whole new world for you my friend take my word for it. Once that happens the possibilities are endless!!!:cool:
     
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    B00M I speak of peace while covert enmity

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    Watch a lot of porno do ya?
     
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    Not anymore ;)

    I've seen quite a lot in my day though.
     
  12. magik

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    I went 20 years with ~10 men before I ever had an orgasm from sex.

    Women are all different, they experience orgasms differently and they also come in different "measures". Sometimes they are extremely intense and you twitch, sometimes it's just a pleasant feeling that makes you very relaxed. For years I had no idea if I had orgasmed because they weren't intense, but I read up and sometimes it's just not the big explosion of pleasure that people make it out to be.

    It smells a little like pee because there is a small amount of urine in women's ejaculant because it flows through the urethra, nothing abnormal but yes that is an orgasm.

    I don't get off from oral, it really isn't even pleasurable to me, I usually tell a guy no thank you when he offers. It does happen from time to time, although it seems to be rare.


    Random Facts: 10% of women never orgasm and 40% of women can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation rather than the gspot.
     

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