Females: Hypothetical Situation

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  1. Jay487

    Jay487 What's Life If You Ain't Enjoyin' It?

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    Say you meet a guy, everythings going great, you get along well, he treats you well, does anything for you, he's focused with goals, etc. The time comes when you finally have sex, and lets just say his manlihood isnt exactly up to part in the size category.

    Drop him like a bad habit and start over, look for someone bigger - whose possibly not nearly as loveable? (for lack of a better word)

    Or is a genuine decent human being more important to you? Just curious on your priorities... I'm sure everyones are different but looking for some input. :noes:
     
  2. otherlank

    otherlank OT Supporter

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    I'm not a girl, but I can't help but give my input on this.

    Simply, if a girl dumps a great guy just because of his size, she doesn't deserve the guy in the first place.
     
  3. audrey

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    Well .. sex is a huge part of a relationship.

    However the size of his manhood has nothing to do with the ability of his tongue :naughty:
     
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    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Depends on what size we're talking about here. I mean there are guys with 2 and 3 inchers and I really doubt I could get much out of that. I'd give it a try to see if I could work with it but if I just couldn't get off from it then I'd probably have to break up with him. I don't care that much about oral, I'd much rather have sex because I get off better from that.
     
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    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    I've studied the subject quite a bit recently, and have come to this conclusion:

    Hardness is more important than size.

    As mentioned above, if its 2 or 3 inches fully erect then there may be a problem.

    But if you are in the normal range like most of us are, then the real issue is your erection quality and hardness.

    I'm in the normal range, but through kegel exercises I have improved the quality of my erections and its made a big impact on my sex life. She is happy, and I'm more confident than ever before.

    Check out the "She doesn't expect you to have a porno cock" thread for more info.
     
  6. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    It's not necessarily the tool, but the proper use of it :naughty:
     
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    audrey New Member

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    That's a very good thread Mr Bloor :mamoru:
     
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    g230sport New Member

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    whats average?
     
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    The worst sex I have ever had, had nothing to do with size. It have everything to do with the fact they were selfish and had absolutely no interest in my orgasm.
     
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    motherfuckng :werd:
     
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    I agree with everyone above. Size doesn't really matter as long as the sex is good.
     
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    The MOST unattractive thing about your frame of mind, in my opinion is THIS:
    Don't be a kiss-ass, it's unattractive.

    <--- takes a deep breath.

    Look, I've met women who are amazing, and are with guys who are pretty much idiots, and (don't ask how :naughty: ) when it comes down to it these guys have less than "porno" dimensions. And you know what? I'm bigger than these guys. And you know what kills me? Is that I couldn't get this woman off, EVEN though it was like being with a virgin as in I could not get it in, as in she told me to NOT go deep or hard, as in it actually took me some time to get in, and I had to worry about hurting her. I sexed her for hours and she never got off.

    And she tells me that her ex, with a (obviously) MUCH smaller endowment, was the only man who ever got her off. As in EVERYTHING about this other guy was 100x more sexy than my "larger" cock.

    Why? Well, clearly it is NOT the size of anything dangling off my body.

    It's about the emotional connection and the loving connection two people have.

    End of story. That's it. Your CONFIDENCE is sexy. How you kiss her, how you take the time to pleasure her, how you slowly move your hands over her body, how you talk to her like only YOU can talk to her ... that's what does it. Just like you can masturbate and get yourself off, sex is a LOT in your head. Think carefully about that - I can (as a male) stroke your cock and you're not going to get off, but if SHE does you will. What's the difference? It's what you THINK about the experience.

    Get in her brain. :wavey:
     
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    Props to Poco ... the man always gives good advice. Listen to this man.
     
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    Thanks, but I don't always give good advice. I'm "on" tonight for some reason. :)
     
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    my ex only ever had a vaginal orgasm during sex with a guy who had a smal penis.

    if you're pleasing your woman, she won't give a fuck if you have a small penis.
     
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    "All this and modesty too." :)
     
  17. Jay487

    Jay487 What's Life If You Ain't Enjoyin' It?

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    Good advice :hs:

    Guess I'll put the noose and chair away for a little longer at least
     
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    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    What size are you? Everytime I've seen a guy on here complain about being small, he's always average or above average.
     
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    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    :werd:

    These guys need to quit comparing themselves to porn actors.
     
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    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    You know what they say the largest sex organ is???? The brain. Poco said it very well....as usual....just thought I'd add this AMEN to his post. :)
     
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    "It's not the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean"

    "But it takes a long time to get to england in a row boat"

    -Jeff Foxworthy :bowdown:
     
  22. Jay487

    Jay487 What's Life If You Ain't Enjoyin' It?

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    umm just about 5'' and using the 'string' method 4'' in girth :o :o :wtcj:
     
  23. Jay487

    Jay487 What's Life If You Ain't Enjoyin' It?

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    and top of the page for maximum embarrassment ftw
     
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    that's more than adequate.
     
  25. Jay487

    Jay487 What's Life If You Ain't Enjoyin' It?

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    thats not what every girl has said thus far, hence why I'm single :(

    I know its not the exact scenario, but I would NEVER not date a girl or break up with her because she has small breasts.
    That would make me extremely shallow and pathetic IMO, she can't help the size of her breasts...

    This makes me feel the same way about women in a way. I saw the thread "they dont expect you to have a porno dick" - but it looks like women enjoy the 8 inch cock beyond belief, and if its not, then they aren't interested.
     

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