First off, I'm like a sailor....I curse all the time. When I'm out in public, on the phone, talking via aim, and just in general. I do it in front of my family and they've gotten used to it by now, but sometimes my sister is just like I've met a few guys who thought it was great and they didn't mind that it was my way of expressing myself. But I've never met a guy who didn't mind. Maybe I'm naive and they were just trying to be nice. I find it very enjoyable to curse, it's like a release for me. who knows, maybe I have anger issues But it's gotten worse over the years and now when I'm out on dates or meeting guys, I find myself holding back my words for fear that guys will find me intimidating or they won't think I'm 'lady-like' But I don't want to have to do that anymore Is this a turn-off for most guys? or even for the ladies, do your guys don't mind that you curse; or do you think that a woman cursing is just disgusting?