Female roommate situation

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  1. Nev

    Nev OT Supporter

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    I recently moved in with 2 girls since they had to kick out a roommate who wasn't paying any bills and i needed a place to move into. I hooked up with one close to a year ago when we were drunk (weren't living together at the time) but since then we were just good friends. I was out last night with the 2nd roommate and while she's drinking she tells me that roommate 1 really likes me. She's a cool ass girl but I'm not trying to be anything more than rooommates/friends but don't want it to be awkward. I'm aware the mistake is already made, but what's the best way to approach the situation from here on out to make things as normal as possible?

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  2. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Best way to approach the situation is to get the fuck out.
     
  3. Nev

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    Thats not really an option right now
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Well she's not telling you or making it obvious to you so far, right?

    If she does you have to unfortunately be honest with her and say you're not looking for that, not to mention it would be far too hard.
     
  5. macbook bro

    macbook bro Guest

    fuck some random girl so they know you mean business
    then fuck roommate #2
    then roommate 1
    then have threesomes for the rest of the time you live there
     
  6. DTR rex

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    THIS! :eek3:

    The roommate that likes you is not being upfront about it YET. So I would avoid it as long as possible. Just act oblivious to the fact that she likes you. Once she starts getting really upfront about it though, that's when you'll have to sit her down and explain you're not interested. Expect some blow-back though.

    And also expect her coming onto you heavily when you guys are drinking. If you give in and hook up with her you'll just make your situation worse I am thinking.
     
  7. wolfskymoon

    wolfskymoon Guest

    Just say you are gay. Best way to get out of situations like these. You have to be persuasive though.
     
  8. JeremyD

    JeremyD New Member

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    This guy wins right here.
     
  9. D7

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    Ignore it
     

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