Female Maturbation

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  1. Pringles

    Pringles New Member

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    Recently I asked my gf if she had pleasured herself recently, as we havent had much sexual action b/t ourselves. Maybe a month or more? She said yes. I asked her what she thought about and she said me. I know this is going to sound very rude and self-centered, but would you believe this? I mean when a guy maturbates normally he uses porn, but if he uses his mind he tends to think of multiple things or sometimes one. I guess I feel bad because sometimes I think of her or sometimes I think of some non-exsisten person, when I beat it.

    Do you(females) really masturbate most of the time to your loved ones?
     
  2. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    depends on how good the sex is with my current.
     
  3. giapia

    giapia Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you re

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    i tend to think about really hot experiences i've had in the past. whether it was the night before or a few months ago or whatever. but hey, porn works too
     
  4. ebbnflo

    ebbnflo REAL- LAOT Hermit

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    Can't answer for all of us, but for me, yes, it has always been my S.O., if I happen to be thinking about someone when I am self serving. LOL
     
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    she could be lying.. but who cares. as long as she's not cheating on you then there really isnt a problem
     
  6. Pringles

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    Ya I'm not looking for a problem, I just thought there was no way in hell she could think only of me when jerking it. Theres gotta be some "perfect" male that might help stimulate her better than myself. It was curiosity and I'm not gonna front her accusing her of lieng. Guys are just different or more asshole than females.
     
  7. giapia

    giapia Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you re

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    thinking of something/someone else while you have a wank at it isn't asshole behavior. it's pretty normal if you ask me
     
  8. Evil Unicorn

    Evil Unicorn Lurk but Don't Touch

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    When I am self serving I think of my BF and the amazing things he does to me. I have thought about my GF a couple times but for the most part I think of him.
     
  9. Cerridwen

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    I'll be the first here to admit that I don't always think of my husband. I also watch porn while I masturbate also.
    I'm sure that you don't just think of 'nonexistent people' either ;)
     
  10. Cerridwen

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    I completely agree. It also doesn't mean you're 'cheating' in any way.
     
  11. Evil Unicorn

    Evil Unicorn Lurk but Don't Touch

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    True. I watch some porn if I get a chance, nothing wrong with that. And it's no where near cheating, you were doing it before you met your SO, and it wasn't wrong then so it shouldn't be wrong now.
     
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    I dont think about anything when im doing it.. just the task at hand... the througt of my husband turnes me on though
     
  13. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    I have to think about an actual experience or feeling (like his dick rubbing on me) to get off, just thinking about some person I don't know doesn't do anything for me.
     
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    If most men masturbates to other women like Jessica Alba and porn, I really don't think it is that big of a deal for women to think of other men and porn too.

    I mean seriously, she is pleasuring herself. It isn't like she is being pleasured on by another man, which would mean she is cheating.
     
  15. Solus Emsu

    Solus Emsu ****** U N R A T E D ! ****** -----THAT'S HOW I RO

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    Honestly, I agree with this.

    I don't care who she thinks about, as long as every once in a while it is about me. The other 99% of the time, she can "think" about whomever whenever she wants.
     
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    GF Masurbating is NOT the reason for decreased Sexual Desire......I know with my Wife the more she Masturbates the more turned on she gets....

    This 120 days are going to fucking kill us :hs:
     

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