I have this female friend and we always get into stupid arguments over nothing. It seems as though my actions never completely satisfy her. She has the feeling that I don't care about her and always expect to pick her over everyone else (even my gf). One thing that happened over this weekend was that one of our mutual friends (I met this friend, through my female friend) was having a bday party... I was invited a few weeks back and I agreed to go. But since my female friend didn't wasn't formally invited, she didn't want to go and instead set up another party to celebrate her going away (she will be on vacation for about 2 weeks in Asia). When she asked if I was going I wasn't sure because she is my close friend but I already had plans... I just think it sucks that she doesn't consider shit like that and she would start some stoopid argument if i didn't go to her thing. I am tired of this crap.... friends aren't supposed to have drama like this. any thoughts?