Ok, I read all the forum stickys at the top and didn't see this mentioned. I looked back a few pages and didn't find anything either. Are the female condoms, I saw one that formed a gel inside the vagina and instantly killed sperm, are they effective or close to as effective as normal condoms? I would assume that sperm which doesn't really enter the vagina (ala guy condom) but gets pulled out afterward would be safer than leaving it inside in the gel. What is the percentage of failure/success for a female condom? any tips/tricks as to using them? Should I stay away from them? OT!!