Feeling loss?

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  1. 127.0.0.1

    127.0.0.1 New Member

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    For some reason, sex barely causes any stimulation, and bjs do not feel that great.

    Is it possible its just the girls? or am i damaged goods?
     
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    have you been sexually abused or traumatized in some way that you can recall?
    That's all i can think of......
     
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    nope, never
     
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    It happens...

    its just like back in the day, when you would kiss a girl and hold her hand, and you would be completely satisfied. Then you grew up, and holding a girl's hand just didnt do it for you.

    Same situation now, only its with sex. Some people just grow out of things, and sex can be one of them. You need to just mix it up a bit, and stay away from self-pleasure. Give yourself a time off from all things sexual for a while, and then jump back into it as freaky as possible.
     
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    Its funny cus back in the day holding hand and kissing wasnt enough.
    As I get older it seems to be more important. Then again I allways have been backwards :hs:
     
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    That sounds good. I can't help but wonder about the mental aspect of having sex. If I do not find the girl I am with completely attractive, would that be reason enough to not find pleasure in sex? I mean is the feeling that goes along with it enough to make me orgasm?

    thanks
     
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    Definitely. If you are just having sex to have sex, and just for the physical feeling...then it will definitely get old quick.

    If you find the girl attractive, and actually have feelings for her, it might make one hell of a difference.
     
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    Maybe I should just work more towards that. I lost my virginity less than two months ago, this was the 2nd girl ive been with (both basically one night stands and that wasnt my intention either way, im not sure why it happens)
     

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