Holidays suck after you get divorced. And if that's not bad enough, my ex is hassling me over some stuff he thinks he's still entitled to from my house. He's also bad-mouthing me to our son, telling him lies about me. I could reciprocate, but that would make me as bad as he is. I don't know how to counteract the damage he is doing to our son. It just is not getting any better with the passage of time! I'm still heart-broken, disillusioned and feeling unmotivated and hopeless. I can't sleep or have nightmares when I do sleep. Nothing seems to help.