My gf has been very annoying...recently more when she suspected me cheating with some ex-gfs. She has been always not wanting to be blame, sometimes very childish and irritating. She works hard, but cannot take chanllenge. Very shallow and unforgiving. I'm the opposite, totally the opposite...tahts what makes me feel unpleasant being with her. I always wanted to meet my friends and make more friends but she always doesnt want to meet anyone, feel and dsiplay she is bored in front of my friends. It makes my friends feel uneasy. So sometimes she just doenst go with me to my friends' place. Sometimes feels like i dont have a gf. We live together, so if i break up with her, of coz i wouldnt want to live with her. But she will have no one to share an apartment and everything. I cannot do this kinda thing to her. I may not love her as much anymore, but breaking up with her would probably ruin her life temporarily. Plus....... One of my ex calls me almost every day from Chicago, she is visiting her aunt. She always wants to get together with me and do sth. She always give me comforting. We have became friends w/ benefits. But I never cheated with her. I did it with her when i wasnt with anyone. Another one girl who isnt my ex, she likes me since we know each other when we were still kids. She would come and live with me once I'm ready to be wit her. Another girl is someone I used to like, and she also has the same feelings for me 2 yrs ago. Couple of weeks ago, we met and hit it off good. We have met a couple more times and had great times. I was tempted to cheat with her, but not yet. I cannot guarantee myself at this time. so tempting and i know she wants to. anyways, i dont know what to do. cliffnotes: gf annoys me so much, read if wanted, i got more opportunities out there. but gf lives with me, cannot leave her.