So is it common? I don't know that many gay people but most of them are into the stereotypical abercrombie hunk type, but I myself prefer the made up effininate guys myself. What are you're opinions here? The only downside I find to my fascination is that most of them (from what I've seen so far) are... bitchy... for lack of a better term, the typical loud, negatively observant queen. As soon as I meet one thats not completely obnoxious I'm going for it.