SRS family discourages me

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  1. MudRacer4x4

    MudRacer4x4 New Member

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    my family is always discouraging me from doing things with my life.

    I know the simple answer is to say fuck them but its not that easy for some reason.

    for some reason i take there thoughts seriously. they always say i'm going to fuck up with ever i do.

    So how can I get them to stop discouraging me or atleast ignore there opinions?

    why do i care so much about what they think?
     
  2. MattThom01

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    look into moving out if you live with them
     
  3. Asses Maximus

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    Have you ever asked why they discourage you?
     
  4. MudRacer4x4

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    they deny it. They say they dont discourage me but they always do.
     
  5. AkaiOokami

    AkaiOokami Hero of the Hounds

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    What exactly do they tell you?

    It may be that they are looking at your best interests and simply want to make sure your dreams and aspirations and clearly thought out.

    They may also be looking out for your safety.

    From the years 11-13 I found myself in a very difficult position with many thoughts of suicide. I thought my parents didn't love me because of similar reasons. They spent so much time and effort with my brother's because they were in sports.

    In reality, they just didn't know how to bridge the gap between us because I had become so distant with my youthful frustration. They had tried, but with hormones so high I would fly off of the handle and run to my room yelling and crying.

    Try to listen to what your parents are saying beneathe their actual words, and ask yourself what you would do if you were a parent with children.

    I'm not sure what the issue is, but I'd like to talk about it more if you would. :bigthumb:
     

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