SRS Facing a Tough Decision

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  1. lilxyoshi

    lilxyoshi Nerdy PreMed

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    hey guys,

    most of you dont know me for sure since I dont post often and only browse the gaming and yard sale forum.

    let me tell you guys a little bit about myself, im 18 years old and currently a freshman in college with my own messy little apartment.

    I've been talking to this girl lately and we've been hanging out a lot. things seem pretty cool cause i enjoy talking to her and i guess she's the same way with me.

    heres where the problem comes in. Shes ONLY 14 years old, something about it feels wrong in so many levels. I just figured out the other day that she really likes me (not just a little crush)

    her friends messaged me on aim saying that she keeps talking about me and that she gets mad when they make comments about me being attractive and what not. I even saw her binder when i dropped her off one day that she has been writing my name on paper repetitively.

    it seems like she really likes me, but shes too young and i dont want to go to jail.

    what should i do? what if she tells her parents? what would happen if i ignore her?

    this is a point in my life where i couldnt make a decision, i hope you guys help me with this one.

    thanks.
     
  2. johan

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    So are you asking whether it would be ok to take advantage of an emotionally immature girl who's obviously obsessed with you, and also obviously not fully ready to enter into a full-on sexual relationship.

    Is that it?

    I think you know the answer to that already. It's just hard to hear it over the loud screaming of your dick.
     
  3. PuppyCat

    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    Don't even think about going near her.
    You're only asking for trouble.
    She's wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too young.
     
  4. Achmiel

    Achmiel Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about bullshi

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    Here's my advice:

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  5. lilxyoshi

    lilxyoshi Nerdy PreMed

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    thats exactly what i was thinking.:rofl:

    how do I let her down though without hurting her feelings or making her cry

    or even worse....depressed.
     
  6. johan

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    Get real, you're not really concerned about her. You're secretly enjoying this little fantasy of a 14-year old being sexually interested in you.

    Concerned about hurting her feelings? Or that she'll cry? Or that she'll be depressed over you?

    That's touching. I think your real motivation is to inveigle yourself emotionally and weave yourself further into this sordid tale.

    Maybe "talk" to her about it? Try to let her down easily?
    Broach the topic with her under the guise of 'being concerned about her'...

    And in doing so...she gets even more into it, and then when emotions run high, you might end up kissing "by accident".
    And then you and she become obsessed, you might post here saying "my head tells me it's wrong, but I have to FOLLOW MY HEART..."
    And you might just end up having sex....which was your real goal anyway.

    God, your motivations are beneath contempt, and so PLAINLY OBVIOUS.
    Even though you seek to veil them, clothed in shroud of goodness and "concern" about her welfare.

    Give it up dude.

    JUST STAY AWAY FROM HER. DON'T TALK TO HER. SHE DOES NOT EXIST FOR YOU.
    THAT IS THE KINDEST ACT YOU CAN DO FOR HER.
     
  7. Darketernal

    Darketernal Watch: Aria The Origination =)

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    My advice is to stay out of the life of anything that could condemn you as being a 'pedhofile'. If you can't get any gf around your age (16 as absolute minimum),then don't get a gf at all.
     
  8. Cerridwen

    Cerridwen Guest

    Had to quote this and also say do you really want to risk having to register as a sexual offender for the rest of your life? This is NOT something that you want to mess around with! If she won't leave you alone, call her parents! Seriously and honestly there!
    Do you want to find yourself wearing an orange jumpsuit in handcuffs and shackles in a courtroom for sexual assault of a child? Because in most states, she can't legaly consent to anything automaticaly making it rape.
     
  9. lilxyoshi

    lilxyoshi Nerdy PreMed

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    Im not that kinda person, im actually a nice guy so all the girls wanna hang out with me but not engage in sexual activity with me (which sucks)

    so im really worried about her, i think less about myself in these situations.

    anyway...heres an update

    My phone kept ringing with a private number for the past hour or so...i have a whooping consecutive 38 missed calls all from the same private number.

    im paranoid about picking it up, i dont want to go on aim either cause i know for sure shes gonna be online.

    am i doing the right thing about just simply ignoring her?
     
  10. CrimsonVonDoom

    CrimsonVonDoom There Cannot be Two Skies OT Supporter

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    Ignore her and she'll move on. Cease all contact.
     
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    38? :wtf: stalker
     
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    Those calls weren't necessarily from her. Although you suspect they might be, which is why you didn't answer.

    Now consider this: if they were from her, you have ALL the proof you need that getting involved with her is the WORST thing you could do.

    Right now, she's got nothing on you. NOTHING.
    Imagine if you slept with her.
    Imagine if you got her PREGNANT.

    Think it'll be handled quietly? Think again. I bet even just messing around with her will cause the shit to hit the fan when you eventually get tired of her.

    Can you imagine the juice she's gonna have on you if you actually fucked her?

    You think she won't run screaming to her parents and yours the first time you miss her phone call and her immature little girl mind starts whispering to her "he's with another girl"...

    This girl has all the emotional maturity of a 14-year old. Oh wait, SHE IS 14 YEARS OLD.... :rolleyes:

    Leave her alone. Leave her alone. Leave her alone.

    Any contact from you will be taken the wrong way and used in a way that you will eventually find very uncomfortable. I guarantee it. ANY contact.

    Leave. Her. Alone.
     
  13. lilxyoshi

    lilxyoshi Nerdy PreMed

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    listened to my voicemail messages....yup, they were her.

    i called her back really quick tellin her im still alive so she doesnt worry

    i ended it quick though because i had to go.

    thanks for your advice johan, without your words of wisdom i would've probably hung out with her today.

    ill just tell her im gay, maybe that would make her lose interest.

    case closed.
     
  14. civicmon

    civicmon got all my game from the streets of california.

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    14.... dude... GO FAR AWAY.

    16-17 i'd give ya the benefit of the doubt but NOT 14...
     
  15. johan

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    You just saved yourself a lot of hassle and worthless drama with your wise decision not to get involved with her.

    If you were also 14 or maybe 16...well I don't condone teenage sex, but 14-16 is going to happen and that's ok.

    But you're legally an adult, even though you probably don't feel any different from when you were 17.9 to 18 years. But legally you are different.

    As for a lower limit, kids under 14 shouldn't be fucking.
     
  16. okita1

    okita1 Great spirits have always encountered violent oppo

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    johan for president!!
     
  17. rookie

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    wow... I could only IMAGINE how this would have turned out if you continued to hang out with her. At 18, I would go as young as 15. Other than that, enjoy!
     
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