Ex's calling you. How do you react?

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  1. The Sirc

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    My ex from over 5 years ago called me today. I've spoken to her once between then and now.

    She called to "see what was up." I told her that I've got a 50k/year job (not really) and that I've got my own condo now (not really). I don't like this girl because she's a stupid bitch and she cheated on me with some gangster who wanted to fight me for her, (note: I am an amateur kickboxer) who ended up being a tomato can that I EASILY kicked his ass (Note: I had only been training for a little while at that point). So it felt good telling her all that. Of course I had to be an asshole and asked, "So how's it going with that faggot you cheated on me with?"

    I guess he ended up sleeping with her 14 year old sister (at the time). Hilarious justice IMO. Anyhow, she was getting all mushy romantic about our past memories that we shared and stuff so I told her that I had go, and that I'd call her soon (no I won't.).
     
  2. Abomb

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    lying for the lose.

    err, shoulda told her you were busy and you had to go
     
  3. lauren

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    if you cant treat them like one of your normal friends, then just dont answer.
     
  4. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    hmmmmm, i don't know how I would react if my ex called........that shit sure would be interesting though
     
  5. Abomb

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    err, shes a stupid bitch according to him, he shoulda just picked up and said he was busy and say bye
     
  6. lauren

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    if shes such a stupid bitch, why answer at all? :dunno:
     
  7. The Sirc

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    Mostly because you don't know the phone number anymore and you pick it up anyway.
     
  8. Abomb

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    to let her know you have a life and are busy and dont have time to even stop and talk to her bitch ass. and the amazing part of doing this is all you have to say is "hey i gotta let you go, im busy right this second, ill talk to you later' and never call her back.
     
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    and thats when u say you are busy :big grin:
     
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    i laugh that they would still contact me. i tell them no thanks, have a bit of a laugh for a second, and go on with my day ;)
     
  11. Brian May

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    Thats funny. My ex from 5 years ago called me at work back in April to see what was going on with my life. This bitch ruined me, she fucked 3 other guys behind my back. While we were still dating, she was pregnant with one of the guy's kids yet swore up and down that she loved me. I didn't know she was preggo since she only a few weeks. :ugh: I found out later on

    Wanna guess what I did after she announced who she was on the phone?

    *click*

    Ex's are ex's for a reason, no need to waste your breath talking to them :down:
     
  12. et3rnul

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    Yeah, what they said ^^. Answer it, then immediately say you're busy and u'll call her back, and then don't.
     
  13. The Sirc

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    I had one friend who had his ex on his phone listed as, "Stupid bitch". When she'd call he'd yell into the phone, "GO CHOKE ON ANOTHER DICK!" and then hang up. It's pretty entertaining to watch.
     
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    Childish. If you want to tell her you're busy and you have to go, fine. But don't tell her you'll call back unless you truly intend to do so.
     
  15. et3rnul

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    Handle it anyway u want. But if your ex became your ex because she cheated on you, like in the OP's situation, then I don't find that childish.
     
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    I absolutely agree. Less drama ftw
     
  17. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Cheaters don't deserve any better than that.
     
  18. lauren

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    cheeters dont deserve any attention whatsoever. its a waste of time to play games like that. :ugh:
     
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    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Well of course they don't deserve any attention but if you don't know it's them before you pick up the phone then that would be the easiest way to get rid of them. Telling someone you'll "talk to them later" doesn't really mean anything anyway.
     
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    I always treat ex's like i would treat my guy friends. I'm straight forward with them, i don't get emotional, and i keep my responses short. :dunno: I'm not going to waste my time with drama.
     
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    Forget about her. A cheater will always have a habit of feeding off your negative emotions. It gives them a sense of power. The best way to get back at them is to not speak to them at all.
     
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    So you actually DID fight the other guy? Were you in high school?
     
  23. JohnJohnJohnson

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    :bowrofl: wtf :rofl:
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    So is the best way to be mean to say nice things? Like, "I love you, will you marry me?" (Obviously not follow through)
     
  25. notsousual

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    Though if one of them called me I'd probably just ask what he wanted and go from there. Wouldn't engage in a conversation most likely, they'd probably only be calling cuz they wanted something, be it a favor (HA.) or for me to help them out someway (possible HA.) Yeah, I dont think it would be that big of a deal. I'm over them.
     

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