ex's are so dumb

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by trudat, Oct 22, 2007.

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Should i call her to see wtf?

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  2. Yes

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  1. trudat

    trudat cervPun

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    been broken up with the ex for about 6 or 7 months now and i get a text message today that reads. "Hey i really need 2 talk 2 u about a couple of things its really important. i know ur at work but please call me when you get a chance." What does OT think? should i call her? if it helps, we had a great relationship up until she cheated on me 3 weeks before our 2 year. She didnt think it was a big deal and since it was the first i should just let it slide. :mamoru: I am well over her but should I hear what the bitch has to say. Help me out OT :rolleyes:
     
  2. HuskiRuski

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    it's your decision, but keep in mind that if you do talk to her, you WILL start to develop some feelings for her again. it's inevitable.
     
  3. trudat

    trudat cervPun

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    impossible.






    i hate her fucking guts. I would still hit it but that has nothing to do with me liking her like i used to. Shes prolly the one girl I could have meaningless sex with cuz i hate her so much .:mamoru:
     
  4. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    I would call just cause I'm curious and it would drive me crazy wondering what they wanted :o Just see what she wants and if it's any shit to do with trying to get back together or something then just tell her off.
     
  5. demosnat

    demosnat New Member

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    Make a mental list of the benefits of calling her back.
    My guess is you come up with nothing.
     
  6. Mangina

    Mangina New Member

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    She probably has some STD's.
     
  7. trudat

    trudat cervPun

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    :squint:
     
  8. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    I wuld call to find out if it's a keepaniggababy or AIDS
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I see no point in calling. I know I wouldn't if I was in your exact situation. I don't give a shit what they have to say. It's probably a lame ass apology and after 6 months I don't give a shit.
     
  10. ass_kicker32

    ass_kicker32 New Member

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    Part of me is curious

    but there are people who I just dont want to hear from. Her text sounds like something is bothering her, so its either...
    a) baby
    b) vd
    c) she wants to get back together.

    Id want to know if it was A or B.
     
  11. HuskiRuski

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    oh. i got the impression from your first post that you were still ok with her.
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    hah, we've got a lot of weak people in here. All voting for him to call her back. Who the fuck cares what she has to say!? It's been 6 months! She cheated on him! She can't have anything beneficial to say to him.
     
  13. ass_kicker32

    ass_kicker32 New Member

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    yeah, maybe Id text her back and be like "wat u want?"
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    The only thing I'd remotely think about texting back is "unless it's an apology of some sort I'm not interested"
     
  15. ass_kicker32

    ass_kicker32 New Member

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    boy, youre angry today.
     
  16. Omerta6

    Omerta6 New Member

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    Nope, not worth you giving her the recognition. I would just ignore it.
     
  17. ass_kicker32

    ass_kicker32 New Member

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    Why do so many people mistake concern, compassion, or caring for weakness?

    Why is there only two options, love and hate? Cant there be a middle ground where he still talks to her, but doesnt care about her?
     
  18. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Actually I'm in an excellent mood. I just don't really see the point of him calling her. If she has something so important to tell him then she can call and give him the benefit of a doubt to answer or not.
     
  19. ass_kicker32

    ass_kicker32 New Member

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    he can call and be like "what?" and she starts getting all stupid he can hang up. A phone call is not a commitment.
     
  20. Omerta6

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    If it was ultra important, she would probably call
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :dunno: I'm friends with some of my ex's. But that's because we are over each other....Also, I wouldn't be friends with an ex who cheated on me. If he wants a friendship with her then maybe he is curious what she has to say...but considering he's asking us all what he should do he doesn't even sound over it and as if he wants to hear what she has to say. I'd think after this amount of time she isn't calling to say "lets be friends!" but who knows. We'll just have to wait for the OP to update on what he does.
     
  22. ass_kicker32

    ass_kicker32 New Member

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    Thats a good point.

    The other day, my ex called like 5 times and I ignored it every time and she sent me a text "This is important. Call me".

    So I call her and it wasnt important and I hung up on her.
     
  23. ass_kicker32

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    good point. I should know better than to doubt you... :hug:
     
  24. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Exactly. He owes this girl nothing. If she wants to be a big girl she can stop texting and just call him.
     
  25. TheGetUpkid

    TheGetUpkid New Member

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    I wouldn't call her. My ex sent me a text message once and left me a voice mail about "something important". Turned out she wanted to know where she could buy Guitar Hero :ugh:
     

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