im sure this has been posted before and if i had the power to search, i would have done so, but i can't search lol does anybody know the real reasons as to why we have fetishes? or certain bizzare fantasies? im a noob @ life so i don't know anything and shit, instead of acting like i know everything, i might as well admit i know nothing and just ask so, i mean shit like um... a fetish for certain clothing (ex: lingere, panties, watever), body parts (feet? etc.) actions (bondage, etc... even shitting and watever) i assume theres that 1 explination that some people give for everything: "it's caused by some experience during childhood" but there has to be a deeper answer, or something tottaly different... anybody?