Sue is pregnant! She is approaching 5 months, and the ultrasound to find out what sex the baby is is right around the corner. I am scared, anxious, and worried. Not for what sex the baby is, but for me being a father. BUT, I am super excited, happy, and losing my head! I have no worries that Sue is the right person to be a mother, I just want to make sure I am as good as a father as mine is/was. We have differing thoughts on a few things, like discipline and such. But we are talking about them and trying to reach a middle ground. So I can say we are moving in a positive light. I know Sue pretty damn well, we have known eachother for over a decade now, but have only been married since October 2008. I can honestly say I regret nothing when it comes to her. We married at 26, and are both 28 now. Another thing, the baby is going to be Made in Japan, seeing as that is where I am stationed currently, and will be when the baby is born! But I am being deployed in October for 6 months. The newborn is due in July... So I am going to miss some important developments, but at least I will be here when she delivers! I dunno, I just wanted to get that out of my system to someone other than the wife. Kind of a neutral place for me to vent and put it out there. Oh and iwishyouwerebeer, have a kid when you feel that you are ready. Don't let anyone push you into it. Kids are a totally different venture, and the addition to your life will change it. So do the things you won't be likely able to do with a child around, and then go for it! Anyway, thanks for the read!