My exgf has been having a lot of trouble eating. It just so happens that we're best friends so i feel like it's my job to be there and offer a helping hand. I know this is a serious discussion forum, and it is a serious problem. She doesn't eat for a day or two, today she had a bite of a granola bar and that is going to be it. she's a star catcher at her high school but i know she won't be able to play if she doesn't have energy. a few weeks ago she passed out and went to the hospital. says shes been drinking plenty of fluids. I don't know what to do though. She says that I don't know how hard it is to be a girl..like she has to fit in. She shouldn't have to worry about that, she's beautiful, and already stands out because she's colombian, so she's got a bit of exoticness to her. I just need some advice on how to get her to eat, and feel like she is perfect. Yes, I do love her. Our lives are linked pretty hard so i can't just sit back and watch her destroy herself. I just need some help, please, if anyone has had a friend that has gone through this or helped someone through...please.