SRS EX Might Be PREGNANT! Need help FAST!

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  1. killer4605

    killer4605 New Member

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    Hey guys,

    My ex and I were fucking around last night and had sex. I went bareback for a little and then put on a condom until we finished. This morning we did the same. I did not take a piss in between (to flush urethra of sperm) and both times I didn't cum in her, but pre-cum probably DID get in her. Also, when we finished up today, the sheets were stained.

    I don't know if it was from her or what. I know that the condom WAS slipping off because we went bareback before I put it on, but I pulled out before cumming and squeezed so hard that barely anything came out.

    After we finished up today, we took a bath and I fingered her a little under water to try to clean up any pre-cum.

    She is NOT on the pill.

    The condom had spermicide (if that makes a difference).

    I am freaking out because I just found out that this is the middle of her period cycle so she is probably ovulating. I went to the drug store to see if there was anything I could buy to save the situation but I went home empty handed.

    Douche and spermicide won't do shit at this point.

    I wanted her to get some E.C. and we tried calling planned parenthood but all the fucking clinics are closed until monday. I called the emergancy room but the fucking cunts refused to help because they are a catholic hospital.

    WHAT THE FUCK SHOULD I DO?

    Should I even be worried from the pre-cum?

    I know I fucked up, I know I should have put the condom on before doing anything, and I know i'm a retard. Curiousity got the best of me (never been bareback) and it felt too fuckin good last night for me to pass up the opportunity earlier today.

    OT HELP ME!
     
  2. Chipwich

    Chipwich Porno Mustache

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    The morning after pill works for up to 72 hours after sex. Consult her first though, she may not want to take it.
     
  3. The Secretary

    The Secretary My domestic skills will rock your socks off!

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    1. Good job dumbass never go bareback unless your ready to have kids.
    2. Talk to her and see where it goes from there and take action as necessary.
     
  4. johan

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    For tonight, call another hospital in your area and get some Plan B. That catholic hospital can't be the only one in your city.

    On Monday go to PP and talk to them about what happened. Get some Plan B and keep it in your nightstand.

    There's no use debating the "chances" i.e. actual numbers, of whether she is or is not pregnant. None of us could possibly know anyways. Having said that based on what you did...there's a pretty reasonable chance. Hence you need to do something about it tonight.
     
  5. strykers

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    Morning-after pill does work up to 72 hours afterwards... can you get it at regular pharmacies?
     
  6. killer4605

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    morning after pill requires a prescription :(. she won't go to the fucking hospital :\
     
  7. scaryice

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    You can try 1-888-NOT2LATE, which is the emergency contraception hotline.

    Also, I don't know where you live, but you can get it over the counter in the following 8 states:

    Alaska
    California
    Hawaii
    Maine
    Massachusetts
    New Hampshire
    New Mexico
    Washington
     
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    after reading that I decided that you didn't read enough about sexual intercoruse between a male and female and you should do so if you plan on doing it again. Pre-cum doesnt impregnat females for the record. It just makes it easier for the seamen to exit your penis. So if your goal was to clean that out you did nothing. Also I'm pretty sure the little guys swim upstream faster than a night of sleep and I'm also pretty sure you can't clean seamen up so don't make yourself look like a fool and do that agian.
     
  9. beanolo

    beanolo It does a body good!!!1

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    Last time I checked pre-cum definitely does.
     
  10. killer4605

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    how long does it take for fertilization?

    will she get pregnant just from pre-cum? i know that it doesn't have any sperm on its own but there might have been some sperm left in my urethra from the night before...

    my state requires a prescription for E.C.... are there any places I can get one on a sunday? (i'll try other hospitals in the area)
     
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    Everything I've ever read has told me that pre-cum CAN get you pregnant. Thats why the bf and I stopped doing what killer did.
     
  12. soundechoempty

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    Not at planned parenthood. it's ~40 bucks and you don't need to have a prescription.
     
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    so you did the same thing and didn't get pregnant or did you take the day after pill?


    also, does anyone know if spermicide lubricated condoms have the spermicide on the inside, outside, or both sides of the condom?
     
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    You're fucked is the short answer.

    If this is an ex it sounds like either she wants to get pregnant or to keep a hold on you. If she was serious about abortion, she'd do whats necessary. The fact she isn't, indicates either she wants the kid or trap you or perhaps is too scared to do anything.

    Either way, if the mum-to-be doesn't want to take action, you're fucked.
     
  15. Cerridwen

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    :hs: I paid $20 for mine there.
    If the girl doesn't want to be pregnant why:
    isn't she on the pill?
    wouldn't she have insisted on using a condom?
    won't she take the morning after pill?
    PLEASE don't be stupid and ever do this again. It is obvious from reading through your post you aren't educated enough on sex to even be having it. Check in the Vag forum for a sticky by me-it has a ton of great info in it.
    Good luck!
     
  16. scaryice

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    It's not as likely as actually cumming in her, but there's still a chance.
     
  17. shiba

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    if you are really really desparate, you could get a pill and dilute it in water before you give it to her. Again, only if you are really really desparate, and I highly do not advocate this.
     
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    Her: This water tastes funny.
    Him: It's premium bottled water. Drink up bitch and don't waste it. :squint:
     
  19. killer4605

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    i think we are safe... the condom had spermicide on it and i went in with the condom after going in bareback... the spermicide should reduce the chances significantly.

    i am still debating whether to have her take the pill or not... today is kind of the last day to decide if i want it to be really effective. i paid 40$ to get the prescription but now i'm having second thoughts about it. i am strongly against abortion in both personal beliefs and religious....

    on one hand i want her to take it and get this over with but on the other i feel like i should man up and take responsibility for my actions and leave things up to fate/god.
     
  20. Syncytium

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    The morning after pill shouldn't be compared to abortion :rolleyes:
     
  21. Cerridwen

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    :ugh2: The most responsible thing she can do right now is take the pill. Think about it, are you two seriously ready to have a child?
    BTW the morning after pill is NOT the abortion pill and should not be confused with it. Please do some more research.
     
  22. scaryice

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    The abortion pill is RU-486. It terminates a pregnancy. That's not emergency contraception.

    The morning after pill is just a larger dose of the normal birth control pill. It stops fertilization from happening. There is no abortion, because its purpose is to stop the pregnancy from occuring in the first place.
     
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    i know the difference but the morning after pill doesn't just work by stopping fertilization. if the egg is already fertilized, it prevents it from attaching to the uterus. that is the part i am against.
     
  24. PukeyCute

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    Since it looks like you're refusing every other option, I guess you could just go the same route as many other boys who don't have the willpower to keep the love glove on.

    Pack up all your shit, change your name and move out of town. Single mothers ftw.

    Also, it can take days for the sperm to reach the egg, so just get her the pill and don't worry about it.
     
  25. killer4605

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    :rofl:

    if she ends up getting pregnant i will step up and be a man about it. if i try hard i can come up with ~15k to start us off. better than what most people have.

    i think that we might be ok... it was just a little precum and we used a spermicide condom within seconds of going bareback... odds are in our favor.

    it just really sucks that i might end up being a dad at 19 because my dick got the better of me. :wtc:
     

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