SRS ex just contacted me

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  1. 1badbird

    1badbird New Member

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    so....lets see how to sum this up.

    Me and my ex have had a rough few months mainly due to her career choice/location and as a result us not being able to be together. Not really an issue we both have made our peace with it, but within 24 hours of this being "public knowledge" my ex whom I haven't talked to in 2 years and supposedly has a b/f, is texting me non stop. I dont think Im overthinking things but what should I be looking for here.
     
  2. zxghostrider

    zxghostrider Sometimes you gotta hop on two wheels

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    She might be trying to get some reaction out of you. Maybe she wants to get back together, and is testing the waters to see if you might be interested as well.

    That or she's an attention whore that wants what she can't have.
     
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    TheGetUpkid New Member

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    I recently went thru a similar situation with my ex.
     
  4. Zee916

    Zee916 Engineering the world.......

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    Been there done that. She wanted to see what your response would be to her getting back in touch with you.
     
  5. Mint

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    She's trying to get attention, get you jealous, or get you back.

    Want to drive her nuts? When you do communicate with her, go out of your way to show her how happy and successful you've been in life, only do it for a little bit, don't keep in touch with her - then stop talking to her.

    If you want her to just leave you alone - ignore her.
     

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