ex girl friend drama

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  1. jrg2820

    jrg2820 New Member

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    well i broke up with my ex maddie two weeks ago and i decide to get back with my ex zarah.
    well my ex zarah that im getting with broke up with her bf ranlie aswell . well now ranlie and maddie just got together this past saturday and i found out they slept with each other by monday.

    the whole thing is messed up , but yea i feel like shit.
    my gf zarah now has her her ex ralie calling her saying he wants her back and he will leave his gf maddie .
    i know i have the right to react to this so i do but yea now it created so much drama.
    i need to know what i should do cuz. i wanna stay with my current gf zarah now and we both want to make everything work this time around . she had me meet her parents and takes me to church. yea i know church and parents but she is taking steps on issues she has with commitment and these are ways we are doing this since im the first to meet her parents.


    wel if you can be some help i thank you for that ..
     
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    ww_Crimson New Member

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    Can you please rewrite this with a little better layout. It sounds like you're talking about a total of 5 people in this thread. Names, or at least variables help.
     
  3. demosnat

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    We don't know you, or these girls. In general getting back with an ex is a bad idea, getting into a relationship when you are recently out of one is a bad idea, and getting with someone recently out of a relationship is a bad idea.
     
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    All you can do, besides run far and fast, is get everyones ex out of the picture adn work on what you can with this girl
     
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    there fixed it hope you guys understand sorry messing
     
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    yea well today there was some bullshit
    me and my girlfriend went out to eat valentine lunch right
    they show up in the same place and start makeing a sence
    and kissing and all i just felt likeshit.
    i could not even eat my lunch.
    well anyways me and my gf just took off and went to some
    place quiet and kept each other complany and tried to forget about today.
     
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    ww_Crimson New Member

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    So your ex, and her ex hooked up. You two should both be completely ignoring your exes at this point and focusing on your relationship.
     
  8. jrg2820

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    yea but her ex keeps calling her and texting her with a bunch of crap and im getting pissed. i dont want to show this but yea it really sucks cuz he does not respect the fact we are together and want to be left alone with no drama. my gf and i do not want anything to deal with them and they are just causing problems for us that we dont want.
     
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    ww_Crimson New Member

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    If she ignores him then you know she's no longer interested.
     
  10. Viper

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    How old are you guys?

    I can't believe I understood what you were saying, but I did. Boy was it hard though. lol

    Focus on your girlfriend. Forget about all other noise.

    If you are younger than, say, 25, just have fucking fun and not worry about working any relationship out.
     
  11. chlywly

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    Sounds like something I like to refer to as a 'clusterfuck' I generally stay away from such drama and strongly urge you too as well; there are plenty of other worthy women.
     
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    exes are good for one thing....drama
     
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    you all should be more worried about passing algebra
     
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    sounds like the exes are together just out of spite, and are purposely causing problems.

    You're going to have to ignore until they get bored...and hope the new girl doesn't have some lingering interest or she's likely to go flitting back.
     

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