Any woman who wants to know how to seduce someone resistant to them may learn something from this thread. Two nights ago my ex-gf, let's call her Jane, seduced me expertly. I felt really bad about it afterwards because I felt like it wasn't healthy for her, partly because I could never have feelings for her. That's why I was so resistant to her in the first place, and the entire time ... up until her lips wrapped around my penis. She was so good at it though ... holy shit. Let me excuse myself by saying that I did NOT expect to hook up with her at all anymore ... haven't done it in almost a year. I thought I had set up very strong resistance to this ... I was very sure in my mind that I would not let her hook up with me this semester. I'm also in a kind of vulnerable state right now. I broke up recently with my recent gf and even though I've been trying really hard I still get a burning miserable feeling in my chest when I think about her at night. Anyways, we're close friends still, Jane and I, and we have a history of openness. So I guess the seduction started when I showed her some awesome porn I got from OTAH and burned onto a CD for her. I mean, I've done this before, no biggy, doing a favor for a friend sort of thing. Also we talk about sex and her body all the time and nothing would come of it. She must have gotten horny though ... I don't even remember all the little steps she did to break down my resistance, she was so subtle about it. I do remember one bit. We were alone in my dorm room. I was sitting, she was standing. "Here, give me your hands," she said. "Try this. I do it with my mom." (So it's safe ... she does it with her mom! ) She took my hands and placed them on her face. "Cuz you know what I look like with your eyes but this gives you a different perspective," she continued. I have to admit it was a pretty cool game in itself ... I would play it with family. You close your eyes and run your fingers and hands over the person's face. You know their face so well, that it's kind of like seeing it - except that your eyes are shut and your only input is through your hands, so it's like seeing ONLY their face, with a spotlight. She commented on how it's cool that we're so comfortable ... "Imagine," she said, "If someone saw us doing this, they'd be like, WTF? You guys are weird." Anyways I did this and as I was feeling her lips I began to get turned on. Let me explain why. 1) Her lips form a perfect circle. 2) The circle is small. But the lips themselves are very full. 3) She always has a lot of spit in her mouth. Always. Dunno why. 4) She has this weird understanding of the spirit of giving head. She is just very into it and conscious of it and giving and almost maternal? and I don't know what. Technique aside, she just gets it. I knew I was absolutely not going to hook up with her anymore. But I was like, whatever, I'm NOT going anywhere with this, it's not that big a deal if I just indulge myself for one second and play with her lips. This is where it gets ridiculous. After about five seconds I came totally clean. I said, "I'm going to stop now, cuz I'm getting turned on." She said, "Well whatever, I'm not turned on." (That's chick logic ... I have yet to penetrate chick logic.) I said, "Still..." She was like, w/e, sat down on my bed and we just talked for a bit. What did we talk about? Her breasts. Not unusual for us, but in these circumstances ... She was talking about the different shapes and sizes and how hers felt a little bigger to her than before, etc. She was sooooo blase about it, totally nonchalant, like she was quite ignorant of the fact that I was already turned on. Then she took my hands and said, "Come on, let's do it again. It's fun." ... more on the way.