Background: my ex-gf hunted me down and started emailing me. I am dating another chick. Ex-gf wants to 'hangout', in most of her emails she says that "we should hangout" "lets hangout soon" ect ect I don't know if I still have feelings for her, and I offered to meet up at starbucks for some coffee but she couldnt b/c of her kid. She wants me to stop by her house and I am definatly not cool with that. I know she wants me to be her baby's daddy. How do I tell her that I am not interested in fathering her kid??