Some of you may remember my thread from about a month ago & how my g/f of almost 6 yrs & I had broken up: Here's a quick cliff notes of it..... dated almost 6 years, lived together, in january of 08 she was trying to get me to marry her, in feb. of 08 she started talking about going on a break/maybe breaking up, i thought it was weird, checked her email (which i never did, but i suspected something was going on, very much), found out she was seeing some other dude, emails talking about kissing him & asking if he was as good in bed as he was @ kissing. FFWD to now: about 1 month has gone by & I spend a ton of time in the gym (lifting & basketball...6 days a week at least), going to bars on the weekend w/ friends, meeeting new girls, etc.....but nothing / no other girl i meet seems right. I consider myself to be a pretty good looking guy (tall, dark hair, dark skin, muscles, etc) & usually girls will come up to me at the bar, but I kind of just end up brushing them off b/c i feel like i'm cheating on (my now ex gf). last night for example, this one girl was hitting on me (very cute) put her phone # in my phone & her and her friend were flirting w/ me telling me to leave w/ them both & sticking her tongue out w/ this little motion. I feel like I'm boring when I just ignore these girls & I feel like I should try to move on to new girls, but I just cant. Another example is my high school g/f keeps asking me to hang out, go on walks, etc & i brush her off too.....all b/c i cant stop thinking about my ex. does it usually take a long time before i should feel like moving on? i know it didn't take her long b/c shes seeing some dude now (the one that she left me for).