SRS Ex from a year ago emails me...

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  1. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    She and I had a good, friendly breakup about a year ago (I initiated it), after 2.5 years of dating.

    Hi,

    I just went through a bad breakup a little bit ago. My ex was being irrational and refused to talk about things. It made me think of you because you were always calm and never lost your cool. Anyway, I just wanted to say now how much I appreciated that.


    In hindsight, that's what I liked about her, too. She was the most calm and rational girl I have ever met in my entire life. Too bad we grew apart.
    Anyway, is this entirely innocent or does she want to bang me? :wavey: We haven't talked in about 8 months.
     
  2. JTp8ntball97

    JTp8ntball97 New Member

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    I think she wants to get back with you.
     
  3. Falconer

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    I don't think I would want another relationship with her. But maybe some secks.

    She was an awesome girl, but we were just too different in the end. I wasn't feeling the chemistry that I want to feel in a serious relationship.
     
  4. Create

    Create :free at last:

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    Tell her she can use you for as long as it's convenient :)
     
  5. JTp8ntball97

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    In that case I wouldn't even talk to her.
     
  6. Crush

    Crush Epidural hematoma up in this bitch

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

    Something like that.
     
  7. MattThom01

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    Here's how you respond: "Thanks".

    That's it. I know sex with her sounds appealing, but you don't want to do that. It will just end up making things awkward...someone will get reattached, and then you'll have to deal with it all over again.
     
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    this may be bad advice but heres what i would do... since you don't have to talk to her in person, be straight up. you dont ever talk to her so if she doesent talk to you for it or gets mad, so what? basicly say, "did you send this email to me with some other intent? If you are looking for some comfort sex im here for you, but I want no part of a relationship. If I'm off base, I'm sorry. My male hormones get the best of me sometimes. I'm glad that our relationship, and our break up was a pleasant experience rather than a strain on you."

    hahaha :mamoru:

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    in for hearing if u get some fun meaningless sex
     
  9. party_cat

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    could it be that she really wants to get back with you?
    this could also be the opposite-maybe she wants only some nice time and thats it!
    if its a purely physicla move she's making then, if you feel differently for her, you may end up being hurt.
     

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