Ex contacted me..

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  1. vizyn

    vizyn New Member

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    She's ready to be 'friends' but went on to say she wants a sexual relationship with no strings... :rolleyes:

    My gut tells me 100% that she's hoping that I'll reconsider things and I flat out told her this. She laughed it off and said no it's purely physical.

    When we broke up this girl went crazy. Taking my shit and not giving it back, wrapping herself around my leg begging me not to go, etc.. The sex was good, but I have a hard time believing things won't get complicated. I think she just doesn't want to admit it to herself, either.

    I've never, ever had a fuckbuddy or any sort of purely sexual relationship, much less with an ex, and a crazy ex at that. Thoughts, suggestions?
     
  2. Aquakittie

    Aquakittie Active Member

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    are there not ANY other prospectives? I can't imagine wanting to enter an arrangement like this EVAR....so much potential drama brewing at the surface.

    Run, run fast.
     
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    i dont think this will end well

    i think shes trying to make herself believe that she can handle a no strings attached relationship but in the end she will go crazy
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Dude, how many threads do you have to make?

    She's a fucking nut case. STOP ANSWERING HER CALLS/TEXTS.
     
  5. vizyn

    vizyn New Member

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    Been striking out recently... met plenty who are more interested in dating and getting into a relationship - definitely striking out in the strictly physical department. :(

    Makes the prospect of a purely sexual relationship seem appetizing at this point.. just need to remind myself why it is NOT worth it.
     
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    Ugh. Just needed to hear it I guess. Blahhhhhhhhhhhhh
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :squint:

    You're hot man, stop doing this to yourself. Go find another girl who isn't so :nuts:
     
  8. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    She just got dumped/had her feelings hurt and wants to fuck you for validation/attention.
     
  9. Devoid

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    Bad plan. I'm a firm believer in doing whatever you can to eradicate the crazy from your life, not to add it.
     

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