So I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks now - we're not exlusive and have no real label but have been spending a ton of time together. Everything has been great, we have a ton of fun together, sex is great, and we're both content with how things are now.. no real interest in making it 'official'. The one thing that kind of gets to me a bit is she constantly talks about her previous ex (6 mo. relationship, been out for 3). The only reason it is an issue is because I really don't want to deal with any drama that could come from it. I don't want to be stuck in the middle of something - we've had a ton of fun together and her doing that would completely turn me off to her. I get that she's not over him and is on the rebound - she told me that when I first met her. My question is.. what do you think the odds are that she's going to put me in the middle anyways? The things she does are as follows.. 1. Constantly talks about our dates/time together being better than how it was with him 2. Brings up negative things about him in conversation, not just with me, all the damn time.. like she's trying to convince herself he's not worth caring about 3. Goes to a couple of the bars he bartends/manages at and tends to invite me out... does things like update her facebook status via phone when she's there hoping he'll see it, or purposely taking a route to walk by and then look through the window to see if he's there.. So this weekend I basically told her that she makes it obvious she isn't over him, which is fine, but if she tries to put me in the middle/use me to make him jealous sort of thing I'm gone. She said she'd never do that and seemed to be pretty upset that she might've already scared me off. Cliffs: Casually dating/hooking up with girl on rebound, everything is great however, she constantly talks about ex, goes to places with and w/o me where she could run into him. Are all these things just to be expected when seeing someone who's on the rebound? What are the chances I'll still end up getting put in the middle of something?