Everything Happens for.....

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  1. LongDongWong

    LongDongWong U can call me Mr.Wong

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    Everything happens for a reason......how many believe in that? explain what is meant by it? thanks, Im curious :sadwavey:


    reasons being.....
    breaking up with GF
    new job
    etc.......
     
  2. the ground folds

    the ground folds rest your trigger on my finger

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    i believe it, shit happens. whether it be good or bad. eventually you will see why it happend.
     
  3. Heyhey

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    This is probably the best answer for this type of question
     
  4. okita1

    okita1 Great spirits have always encountered violent oppo

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    i believe it, ive seen soo many things happen in my life that sucked etc. that i had no control over, but when i step back and look at things, there are some really good things that would not have come to pass if the bad things didnt happen first.
     
  5. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    I beleive this one hundred percent. It is more or less a mantra for me. When things get really shitty and I just want to curse the gods I keep in mind that there is some plan out there for me. And when you look back on it it's true. Every time I felt like I was in the biggest shithole of my life, I lived through it and it taught me lessons that I would never trade for the pain. You know? Basically saying that every little element in your life, every thing that effects you (whether you know it or not) has some impact on the course/ direction of your life. You know?
     
  6. the ground folds

    the ground folds rest your trigger on my finger

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    the pain sucks though
     
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    If some of the shitty things that happened in my GF's life didnt happen, I probably wouldnt have met her, so, yes I like to think things happen for a reason.
     
  8. LongDongWong

    LongDongWong U can call me Mr.Wong

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    I would like to believe that my Gf and I broke up for a reason.......I have yet to see the good out of it.... :wtc:
     
  9. Miss Red

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    Absolutely everything happens for a reason. It's true. It amazes me sometimes how everything is connected.
     
  10. okita1

    okita1 Great spirits have always encountered violent oppo

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    well, could be that yall get together later and are just stronger because of it... or alternatively you will meet someone more compatible with you, i know it sucks just remember what doesnt kill you can only make you stronger :hug:
     
  11. LongDongWong

    LongDongWong U can call me Mr.Wong

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    :love:
     
  12. chica&buddies

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    :bowdown: agree to the T :)

    you don't know pleasure without pain... it's as simple as that. :)
     
  13. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    I tend not to want to "dig deep" and know why things happen; I've come to the realization that things are going to happen all the time regardless of the reason, so it's best to just let them. I don't have much by way of emotions or emotional attachment anymore since there's no point in clouding my judgement with them. Something happens, I deal with it in a logical manner, and let it go.

    "Shit happens.... wipe your ass and flush the toilet."
     
  14. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    Exactly!
     
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    I have had numerous shitty things happen to me in the past and at the time I could not see a logical reason as to why they happened. But after dealing with them I can now look back and see that all the shitty things led to postive things. You live and you learn. I believe everything happens for a reason and in the end it will only make you a stronger person.
     
  16. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    :bowdown: Pain is part of life. It sucks but if none of us were to experience these things we would all be very weak and naieve people.
     
  17. LongDongWong

    LongDongWong U can call me Mr.Wong

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    going throught the pain now :wtc: .......cant wait for the pleasure ...whenever that may be? :hs:
     
  18. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    I second that. I am going through the pain as well, "letting go is never easy." But someone very wise once told me that if you love someone enough sometimes you just have to let them go. It is all for the best, in a few months you will look back on it with fond memories, I promise. Chin up tough guy, tomorrow is another day :hs:
     
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    so does that explain how Utah went?
     
  20. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Yes, unfortunately it does :) It is for the best though, I know this so does he. Not much else to say.
     
  21. the ground folds

    the ground folds rest your trigger on my finger

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    thats good, well as long as you really feel its for the best. we all know how hard it is to let go of someone you love.
     
  22. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    like what like on some physics level the universe cares about my perception of losing a job? i think no
     

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