Everyone wants me to date this one girl.

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  1. RebootEnzo

    RebootEnzo New Member

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    Yeah it is the girl I was talking about last time and everyone keeps saying I should do something. A girl that I know today called me a pansy for not asking her out but I think you guys are right. That she still thinks way to much about her ex-bf as they had went out for years and lived together. Sometimes she still calls him her boyfriend then corrects herself. I dunno what to do as everyone thinks there is something between us.

    I feel like I am throwing away a chance but also fear that she still is not over her ex. Who knows what type of problems that would cause.
     
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    Do you think there's something between you two? Are you even interested in her, or your friends are just pushing you? It sounds like it's just the friends, although I don't remember your other thread.

    Personally, if she cannot even remember to call him her "ex", I wouldn't want to date her. How are you going to feel when you're dating and she does that?
     
  3. RebootEnzo

    RebootEnzo New Member

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    I think there is something but yet again I have girls sit in my lap and kiss me who wont date me so I am clueless anymore.
     
  4. Savage5point0

    Savage5point0 Im an asshole.

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    Make love to her anus and then dont call her.
     
  5. RebootEnzo

    RebootEnzo New Member

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    Sounds like a plan.
     
  6. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    Don't date someone cuz everyone says you should. Date her cuz you want to.
     
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    don't feel like you should date somebody just because you know they are willing to put up with you
     
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    Oh I am not. I am just saying everyone thinks I should have done something by now. I want to date her but I am pretty sure too much is going on with her ex right now so I don't think I should try anything. While everyone around me keeps telling me to ask her out on a date.

    I really like this girl but feel there is too much going on with her ex causing me to get rejected or have a short relationship.
     
  10. giz

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    start seeing her and it should become apparent (if it isn't already) whether or not you should continue
     
  11. RebootEnzo

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    Define seeing? I should just ask her on a date?

    To me it seems apparent as she said she was going to make me food one day but you know maybe just really friendly.
     
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    But yeah guys I really do like this girl and it does show which is why I think everyone pushes me towards her because they know I want to date her.

    And I do..But one thing I left out is I work with her.
     
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    If you want to date her, then start doing it! If things end up not working out, it happens. Otherwise you will probably just second-guess yourself forever
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Is it impossible for you to just date the girl casually and know that it wont really go anywhere but to have fun while it lasts?
     
  15. RebootEnzo

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    No if this casual relationship leads to sex. If the girl ends up just being a cuddle bitch than yes.
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Then if you can't make a move and seal the deal and you do somehow become a cuddle bitch you move on!
     
  17. RebootEnzo

    RebootEnzo New Member

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    Well since the last fuck up I don't even know what constitutes as a date anymore.
     
  18. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    You hang out, somewhere. Get to know each other better. Possibly hook up at the end usually.
     
  19. RebootEnzo

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    Does the word date have to be used because all my very long term relationships it just happen from hanging out all the time.

    Or can it be strongly implied?
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    It can be whatever you want, that's the beauty.
     
  21. Viper

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    Pick up a copy of Robert Glover's "No More Mr. Nice Guy". This book fits your situation a little bit in the Asylum as well.
     
  22. RebootEnzo

    RebootEnzo New Member

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    Yeah some situations I might ignore or avoid but only because I already know the exact reaction/chain reaction that is going to come of saying fuck you. While in other things I will come out and say fuck you.
     
  23. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I do not want you to date this one girl.

    Would you like me to invalidate your parking as well?
     

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