Every girl I've met since my ex, has bored the HELL out of me.

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  1. UNvisible

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    The sex has been boring, the conversations, the interactions..... BOOOORING.

    What do I do about this?

    I think another problem is I can alllways get the girls I just want to fuck... but the girls I see a relationship with aren't feeling me (lately).

    Weird.
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Well it sounds like you haven't been having good sex or good relationships because maybe you are self consciously just choosing girls that are sex-worthy, but not relationship-worthy (and maybe you equate great sex with more emotional attachments). Finally, when you do meet a girl that you genuinely like you're possibly still coming across as a player who only wants to get laid and they sense this :dunno:

    If you want a meaningful relationship, the right kind of girl isn't just going to fall into your lap; you have to keep trying to find her.
     
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    chances are that its you thats doing something different, not them.

    If your game that works is indifference and a don't give a damn attitude, if need to work on chilling out a bit on the girls you actually do give a damn about.

    On a side note, it took me forever to find a girl that i really enjoy being with. Its awesome. :wiggle:
     
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    My game is complex, not just a simple "dont give a damn" attitude. :big grin:


    I think the problem is the girls i do actually give shit about, do indeed think of me as a player.

    Little do they know I just got out of a 3.5 year relationship 4 months ago. How is that a player? I'm only 21.
     
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    another problem I think... I'm tripping over a girl that lives in fucking san diego :mad: (law school, she just moved there).

    I have multiple women on my plate right now, and they are all fucking BORING.

    I think I am putting too much of an emotional connection on great sex... Damnit, I'm turning into a woman :ugh:
     
  6. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    Is your AV a pic of Kimi?
     
  7. UNvisible

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    yes?
     
  8. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    Awesome! I'm a Massa fan myself but Kimi cracks me up. Did you happen to see the clip of him saying he missed an interview or something because he was "having a shit"? Too funny.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I love being right.
     
  10. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    What's your game in detail
     
  11. UNvisible

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    I already knew the answer to this thread when I made it, I just wanted to type it out.

    But thanks ;)
     
  12. UNvisible

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    :hsugh:
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Too personal?
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    I should stop with the direct questions :o
     
  15. UNvisible

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    it's not "personal"


    The intellectual property that is "my game" is not exactly easy to type out in a few sentences on a message board :)
     
  16. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    That's cool... do your best, summarize, etc. Unless it is actually copyrighted :hs:
     
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    I'm guessing you are very intelligent. Am I right? The higher someone's intelligence, the harder time they have interacting with other people and therefore the harder it is to find someone with whom they are a good match. Most people bore you.
     
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    :rofl:

    I'm not some elite holier than thou intellect walking around begging to be stimulated by a woman.... I just prefer someone who is quick on their feet, has goals, has a personality, and makes relatively good choices. I just need someone perfect ;)


    Thanks though, I'll take your post as a compliment. :)
     

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