ever had a chick think you're crazy?

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  1. nerd9

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    i'm extremely dedicated to my fitness routine and watching how i eat, but this new chick i'm seeing is intimidated and threatened by my dedication, which in turn makes her feel insecure about herself

    i never talk about my workouts or stress about food with her at all, maybe she's bat shit crazy even though she's fine as all hell :dunno:

    anybody else ever have this happen to them?
     
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    strykers Antimember

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    maybe she'll want to start working out too
     
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    When I was really strict on my diet and lifting hard my ex-g/f used to develop insecurities from it and it would occasionally cause problems w/ the relationship.
     
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    fuck her literally
     
  5. nerd9

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    details on how you got her to stfu, if you did so?
     
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    people are intimidated by those who possess a dedication or passion greater than there own.
     
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    Take particular notice of the term "ex" that I used LOL.

    She dumped me, which sucked, but one good side is that now I spend more time in gym and on-spot with my diet and don't have to hear complaining about it.
     
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    yeah this chick messes up my sleep and diet schedules every weekend when she stays the night, but i do 4 days on and 3 days off anyway so it doesn't hurt me much at all. i just wish she would shut the hell up already.
     
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    i don't know man, he doesn't want to give her a paper cut down there
     
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    so getting more gym time because you get less sex time is good?
     
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    :werd: bordering on homo status there, spending more time with broly sweaty dudes is fun! :hsugh:

    :rofl: just messin with you dtr
     
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    4days on and 3days off is not good. You are really holding yourself back like that.

    G/F's require attention and they complain... It is the nature of the beast. I would be lying if I said I didn't miss my ex and didn't want her back, but one good thing I noticed almost immediately when being single was that my life was MINE again. I workout whenever I want, I can be on a diet without hearing about how I am "not fun" or "pushing my diet on her", etc...

    We broke up and my lifts stayed the same and yet I lost a solid 3%+ bodyfat because I could be more dedicated.

    If she is not that special to you and "just another girl" get rid of her and wait for a girl that is also into fitness to some extent. If she is really important to you, then tell her how important lifting/diet is too you and she NEEDS to be understanding.
     
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    yeah... once this girl said she only benched 95 lbs. i was like *psh!* that's nothing i can do 3 times as much.... she got :noes:
     
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    HELL NO!

    Like I said, I got dumped and it fucking sucks. BUT, if anything good came out of it, it is that now I have time to really focus on my routine.
     
  15. xela

    xela So say we all!

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    Ding. I think they can be resentful about it...
     
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    Yes, happens all the time
     
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    my ex got pissed with me when i started losing weight and my butt started to tighten up from playing raquetball every day.

    she wanted to keep me flabby.
     
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    I was dating this guy who was sorta cubby (I have a fat fetish anyway :dunno:, plus he's only like 6'1" 210 or something) and I started losing weight and then he started getting weird and insecure and saying he needed to lose 30lbs before we were really "together." It was kinda retarded and he's actually pretty good looking, even fat.

    I know for girls sometimes it's weird getting in shape/losing weight because other girls get jealous or something. My mom always asks me if I eat because she says I'm too skinny...and then other friends are like "god, you lost so much weight...wtf are you doing coke?"

    I don't think this really helped you...but basically she's just jealous/insecure.
     
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    yeah, this chick probably intends to suck the life out of you. If she can't handle you going to the fucking gym for a couple hours per day, then she can move on.
     
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    turbo35 haters gonna hate

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    "even though"?? the two are basically synonymous...
     
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    Self improvement indicates that you are looking to improve most if not all aspects of your life.

    Women are intimidated by this because it also indicates that at least unconsciously you are looking to improve your sexual life and/or sexual partners.
     
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    If its just a friend i'll tell them that they are really just angry at themselves because they dont have the dedication or will power to do anything that they enjoy. it usually shuts them up
     
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    My mom gives me that shit, too.

    She noticed my traps got bigger and said "I don't like what you're taking". Then when I shipped out an extra bottle of AMP I had for sale she said "who would want to buy something from you if they could legally get it in a store. Be honest."

    I flipped.

    Occasionally she'll just flat out ask me if I'm on steroids. You can check out my log... My physique is nothing special -- especially to be asking me if I'm on steroids.

    Funny she never asked me this during high school lacrosse seasons.
     
  24. The Boy Bastard

    The Boy Bastard Bewbie's??

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    Usually these two go together more times than not.
     
  25. Uglybob69

    Uglybob69 I miss beer.

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    :werd:

    My current girl doesn't mind so much, mostly because I'm bulking and she still looks better than I do. I'm guessing once I cut down again she may have problems with it. :mamoru:
     
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