Ever felt helpless trying to oral loving a girl...?

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  1. Azn_azzho

    Azn_azzho New Member

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    Sometimes, depEnds on different girls, I cant seem to give the pleasure by eating her out <- sound disgusting lol. Looking at her face, while tongue around her pussy, she seems no feeling, not amking a sound. Feel so helpless sometimes. ideas?
     
  2. danison

    danison The Contrarian

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    Oral sex is an art, much like writing english. If your ability to do one is linked to the other you have a long, long, incredibly long way to go.
     
  3. gookarachie

    gookarachie New Member

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    Sucks to be you dude.

    You need to find the clit.

    Have your girl give you a guided tour down there. Have her talk you through it.

    It took me about 3 times going down before I found the clit without having to look. Now I can find it instantly on any chick with no problem. And they just cum and cum and cum. Its great. Going down on a chick is actually one of my favorite hobbies.
     
  4. MovieMan84

    MovieMan84 Here we go

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    No gym for home?
     
  5. Aries240SS

    Aries240SS Slow Nissan

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    if she doesn't cum in the first 30 seconds, then you're not doing it right.
     
  6. [HRT]Squirrel Master

    [HRT]Squirrel Master New Member

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    I hold a Black belt in Oral sex....

    and its more than just the clit... learn to vary it, G-spot with your finger, finger and tounge together.... get creative.... its fun!
     
  7. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Her mosa? ITS MY MOSA!!!
    :rofl:
     
  8. dscallaway69

    dscallaway69 New Member

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    yeah man if she isn't enjoying it have her tell you what she likes and go for it. I have never really ran into that problem. Normaly if she doesn't like one thing I pull another trick out of the bag until I get her going
     
  9. [HRT]Squirrel Master

    [HRT]Squirrel Master New Member

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    Black Belts dont have to ask..... we just know...:squint:
     
  10. ApplePie

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    One Suggestion "Tease Tease Tease"

    then once u go down there all that bottled up sexual tension will burst and u dont gotta try so hard ro have such a difficult time
     
  11. JAFAR

    JAFAR FPS whore OT Supporter

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    :rofl: No home for gym? :rofl:
     
  12. JordanClarkson

    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

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    lick the alphabet :mamoru:
     
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    run Guest

    I think the alphabet licked him.
     
  14. Shelby500

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    one time my gf was haivng problems couldnt even get herself to orgasm...so I tried and in 20 minutes i got her to cum...that took a long ass time and i got tired but I was determined
     
  15. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    :bowrofl: Oh man... I needed that laugh :rofl: :mamoru:
     
  16. Big Red

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    well when i know me and a girl are gonna hook up i just do the same things i like to be done. for one keep your nails short, i do not enjoy getting my insides cut up. and i adore penetration,usually two fingers using the come hither motion, with clit stimulation, depending on what "vibes" you get from the woman, also some anal pressure. I know the shocker sends me into fits, in a good way though :naughty:
     
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    +1 on having her show you where the money is...there is no way you can just 'teach yourself' without a woman's vast knowledge of her own pleasure.
     
  18. Trickypants

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    I feel like an eye doctor down there...

    Which is better, number 1 (does a 'movement) or number 2 (different movement)...or about the same? :dunno:
     
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    :rofl: @ eye doctor...

    Her: Can you tongue the letters on the 3rd line down?
    You: Y...E...R...P...Q
    Her: Oooooh, that's correct!
     
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    Pyropup55 Active Member

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    ask her what she likes but don't be *lick* was that ok? *lick* was that ok? If she starts trying to shove your entire face up inside her, your probably doing something right ;)
     
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    FTW!
     
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    umm, ya u can. i did. first girlfriend i ate out was like 'wtf, that was amazing. you've never done this before?'

    seriously, it's not that hard...

    as for the "if you can't do it in 30 seconds you're doing something wrong", maybe this is just a blanket statement but honestly, what fun is in giving a girl an orgasm in 30 seconds? i like to draw it out for awhile. though sometimes i'm just like "i'm gonna make you cum as fast as i can" and 20 seconds later *orgasm*. just depends on the night, situation, whatever.



    there's been 1 time which i didn't make her cum from oral when trying my best, and that was because of some outside interference (basically she thought all we had was a sexual relationship, wasn't relaxing, etc etc. no cum).
     
  23. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    :werd: I got the same responce my first time...and have never had a complain. I just do what comes natural. Those that are saying its an art, or a science are either very very simple people, or really have no clue at all.

    Its a simple thing, you just do different things, you find what makes her cum, what doesnt. You experiment around at first, and when you find something good you do it. Mix it up. There is no set 'way' because each girl is going to like and dislike different things.
     
  24. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Her mosa? ITS MY MOSA!!!
    :bowrofl: :bowrofl: :bowrofl: :bowrofl: :bowrofl: :bowrofl:

    OMG, I needed that laugh!
     
  25. Trickypants

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    In all honesty (despite my above post)...this is true.

    I also think for some it comes naturally and others need to 'learn/practice' it. First girl I ever went down on squirted on me...thought I was gonna drown :hsugh:

    No idea how I did it, I just do what I think she'd like and listen to her reactions, nothing specific ***except for the g-spot w/ finger and another finger outside the body trying to make them touch*** they love that...
     

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